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Trauma Thursday: Weighted Blankets for the Traumatized Child

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Submitted by FaithA on Thu, 04/02/2009 - 06:48
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Traumatized Adopted Child (c) JulieC

Over on my personal blog, a reader told me about a product called a weighted blanket. I had been talking about my issues with sleeping after child abuse, which includes the need to cover myself in heavy blankets. The reason is that the first sign that I was about to be abused as a child was the rush of cold air against my back as my covers were removed. So, to feel safe enough to fall asleep, I need to feel heavy covers “protecting” me.

The reader posted this comment:

Have you ever heard of weighted blankets? I have one, and it helps a lot (well… sleep is still a huge issue). They are filled full of plastic beads and can weigh up to 50 lbs. I got mine from Dream Catcher’s. I am a seamstress and these things are well made and well worth the money and the wait (mine took several months to arrive). You even get to choose your own fabrics. ~ Cera

I had never heard of such a thing. I checked out the site and was impressed.

I ordered one of their blankets last month, and it arrived three weeks later. I chose one of the standard blankets, in part because I did not know how much weight I needed and in part because I did not want to wait several months like Cera did.

The site said to order a blanket that is 10% of your body weight plus one pound. I don’t know how much I weigh (weighing myself triggers my eating disorder), so I decided to order a 15-pound blanket and call it a day.

The blanket is amazing. For the first time in a very long time, I was not overheated as I slept. The blanket molds to your body, so I felt like I was being “protected” all night much more effectively than with the folded up comforter and blanket that I usually use.

If you are parenting an adopted child who has suffered from trauma and/or has issues with sleep, you might want to consider buying the child a weighted blanket. There is something soothing about feeling “wrapped” in security as you sleep. I sleep more soundly and restfully when I am wrapped up in mine.

To purchase a weighted blanket, go to Dream Catcher Blankets. They are running a sale in April. You can get a 10% discount with the promotion code “autism.”

Photo credit: JulieC

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Sensory Issues

Submitted by AngelaW on Thu, 04/02/2009 - 09:20.

My darling daughter has sensory issues and heavy blankets work wonders for her. She is able to sleep much better.

When she was younger she had a weighted vest. The small weights were in little pockets over the vest. It helped her feel calm during school. She would only wear it for a couple of hours.

 

AngelaW
The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most. - Unknown

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The sleep thing is sou

Submitted by souman on Sun, 09/27/2009 - 15:19.

The sleep thing is sou hard. I come across that I sleep better after I choose to release a memory foam double mattress. It is almost like my body is rewarding me for letting the memory out.

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You can simply make a

Submitted by souman on Sat, 11/07/2009 - 07:28.

You can simply make a weighted pillow by filling a soft fabric with sand or sand and beans, anything heavy. If a child has issues sitting in place, or is really antsy and jittery- Placing a weighted blanket or pillow on their lap creates deep pressure which will help them cool down.

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Weighted Blankets???

Submitted by Ali_Bakar on Thu, 11/12/2009 - 01:46.

I never heared about weighted blankets but now I think it should be tried.Can we see this type of blanket in Korean Blankets?

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Weighted blankets are

Submitted by LisaS on Thu, 11/12/2009 - 09:06.

Weighted blankets are specially made and you can order them through the ad on our front page.

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Re-Trauma Thursday: Weighted Blankets for the Traumatized Child

Submitted by Ali_Bakar on Tue, 12/08/2009 - 09:04.

Its really amazing blankets for children.I would like to add one thing that there are some varieties of Canadian Blankets are available for children.

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Great posting

Submitted by priyanka on Fri, 02/05/2010 - 08:10.

This article gives the light in which we can observe the reality. this is very nice one and gives indepth information. thanks for this nice article

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children development

Submitted by david007678 on Tue, 03/30/2010 - 02:58.

Thanks for the post. Keep the great work.

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The site said to order a

Submitted by Bill Andreas on Mon, 05/31/2010 - 01:16.

The site said to order a blanket that is 10% of your body weight plus one pound. I don’t know how much I weigh (weighing myself triggers my eating disorder), so I decided to order a 15-pound blanket and call it a day.

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