Home

Adoption Under One Roof

Covering adoption from every angle, every view, for everyone

Main Menu

  • Home
  • How To Adopt
    • Getting Started With Adoption
    • Adoption Types, Costs, Timeline
    • Hague Intercountry Adoption Treaty
    • Definition of Adoption Terms
  • Resources
    • Foster Care
      • Contests
    • After Adoption
      • Searching for a Birthmother
    • Adoption Statistics
  • Blogs
    • Guest Blogger
      • Dee Thompson
      • Janine
      • Jeanette Schnell
      • John
        • Older Child Adoption
        • Older Child Adoption
      • Linny
      • Marjorie Shaw
        • Marjorie Shaw, autobiography of an adoptee, closed private adoption in the U.S., domestic adoption in the U.S., sibling sexually
        • Marjorie Shaw, autobiography of an adoptee, closed private adoption in the U.S., domestic adoption in the U.S., sibling sexually
      • Michael
      • Patricia Dischler
      • Scrapsbynobody
      • Susan Metters
    • Adoption Maharishi
    • Amy Adoptee
    • AngelaW
    • Ask An Adoptee
    • FaithA
      • Baby Names
      • Trauma Thursday
      • Trauma Tuesday
    • Foster Mommy
      • Educational Testing and Assessments
      • Friday Activities
    • Julia Fuller
      • Parenting Mistakes Saturday
    • JulieC
      • Friday Funnies
      • How To Tuesday
        • How To Tuesday
      • Hump Day Hippie
      • JulieC's Sites to See
    • LisaS
      • Chanuka is not Christmas with a twist, teaching your adopted child's friends about Chanukah,
      • Corrupt and Questionable Adoption Agencies
      • Making the World a Better Place
      • Running With Scissors
    • Sandra Hanks Benoiton
  • Polls
  • About Us
    • Blog and Comment Posting Policy
    • Contact Us

.

bellomonili fine jewelry

Home Blogs FaithA's blog

Trauma Thursday: Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) and the Traumatized Adopted Child

Submitted by FaithA on Thu, 08/21/2008 - 08:45
  • child abuse
  • DID
  • dissociation
  • dissociative identity disorder
  • Foster adoption
  • Foster care
  • Older child adoption
  • Trauma Thursday

Traumatized Adopted Child (c) JulieC

On Trauma Tuesday, I introduced the topic of dissociative disorders. Today, I would like to discuss the most extreme type of dissociative disorder, which is called dissociative identity disorder (DID). If you are unfamiliar with DID, you might recognize it by its former name – multiple personality disorder.

DID has gotten a bad rap in the media. When most people think about DID, they think about the movie Sybil. My biggest complaint about how DID is represented in the movies is its lack of subtlety. The whole point of DID is to be able to switch to different alter parts without anyone else knowing. The way that DID is portrayed in the movies is about as subtle as being hit by a truck.

DID is a brilliant way to survive extreme child abuse, and people with DID tend to be highly intelligent. A person can only develop DID if the severe abuse begins at a young age. My own informal polling of hundreds of child abuse survivors has shown that the magic age seems to be around six years old. Those who are older than six when they started experiencing extreme abuse do not seem to have the gift of fragmenting their consciousness into multiple parts.

You can read the DSM-IV guidelines for DID, which are outlined here, but they do not capture what it is like to have DID. DID is simply an extreme way of segmenting the way your brain functions. Instead of holding all memories in one place like most people do (in what I call the “core”), people with DID have the ability to hold different memories in different places so they can interact with the world as if the abuse was not taking place. This enables a child to be raped at 3:00 a.m. and then sit across the breakfast table with the rapist at 7:00 a.m. as if nothing happened. This is because the child has no conscious memory of the rape happening: That memory is safely tucked away in another part of her brain.

DID is a complex disorder, so I will spend the next couple of trauma blog entries explaining DID in more detail.

Related Topics:

  • Understanding Integration
  • Dissociative Identity Disorders topics on my personal blog
  • Let's Talk Parts

Photo credit: JulieC

  • FaithA's blog
  • Login or register to post comments

Help Your Child Sleep

dream catcher weighted blanket

Blog: Traumatized Child
Mention AUOR for 10% Discount

User login

  • Create new account
  • Request new password

Popular content

Today's:

  • Superman - The Movie
  • Trauma Tuesday: Orgasms During Rape and Sexual Abuse
  • How to Tuesday: How to Write an Autobiography for Your Adoption Home Study

All time:

  • International Adoption Statistics for 2007
  • Trauma Tuesday: Orgasms During Rape and Sexual Abuse
  • Foster Care Adoption Statistics

Last viewed:

  • Trauma Thursday: Traumatized Child and Healing Through Mantras
  • Trauma Thursday: Teach Traumatized Adopted Child to Express his Feelings
  • Trauma Tuesday: Recognizing Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) in Traumatized Adopted Child

Recent comments

  • re: Happy Seventieth Birthday Fostermommy
    7 hours 17 min ago
  • Nancy Bailey & Semillas de Amor
    2 days 16 hours ago
  • You are very welcome Lexie.
    3 days 19 hours ago
  • The Invisible Wall
    3 days 20 hours ago
  • Great posting
    4 days 21 min ago
  • This is very crucial
    4 days 5 hours ago
  • What's that?
    4 days 14 hours ago
  • I know at the drug
    6 days 12 hours ago
  • Not all birth certificates are even close to the same
    1 week 10 hours ago
  • No nanny, superman or super
    1 week 19 hours ago
Site Map
© 2010 Adoption Under One Roof LLC. All Rights Reserved. email: info at ouradopt.com
Opinions expressed in posts and blogs belong to the person who is expressing them. So then it follows that these opinions are not those of Adoption Under One Roof.
RoopleTheme