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  <entry>
    <title>Answering The Call Of Nature</title>
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    <published>2008-05-19T18:56:56-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-29T22:59:45-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
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    <category term="Administrative" />
    <category term="CSA" />
    <category term="environmental issues" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="Russia" />
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<p>Since I started writing for a living, I've been through intense periods of writing mostly about a single subject. There were a few years of international business, followed by time writing only on businesses in New York City. There were years spent on entrepreneurs, and years spent on the world's biggest companies.</p>
<p>For the last nearly 18 months, I have focused much of my energy on adoption, mostly adoption from Russia. On this blog and another, I've had the chance to explore the changes that have made Russian adoption now very different from what I first experienced in 1999.</p>
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<p>Since I started writing for a living, I've been through intense periods of writing mostly about a single subject. There were a few years of international business, followed by time writing only on businesses in New York City. There were years spent on entrepreneurs, and years spent on the world's biggest companies.</p>
<p>For the last nearly 18 months, I have focused much of my energy on adoption, mostly adoption from Russia. On this blog and another, I've had the chance to explore the changes that have made Russian adoption now very different from what I first experienced in 1999.</p>
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<p>But this year, I began to turn more of my attention toward the environment. I got accepted into a university's environmental studies program. I started working on elementary school environmental education and on expanding an organic farm's community-supported agriculture plan. And the more I worked on environmental issues, the more compressed my time became for writing about adoption.</p>
<p>So I've made a decision to step back from adoption blogging now and spend more time on the environment. To me, answering the call of nature (if I can call it that), is just one more step in the commitment I made to give my kids a future different from the one they were born to.</p>
<p>The co-founders of this site have graciously accepted my resignation, but they are keeping the mailbox open for me to write the occasional guest blog. This is my last post as a full-timer for Adoption Under One Roof, but I leave knowing that there will always be many stories for you to read and many opportunities for you to re-shape the discussion on adoption, at home and abroad. I hope you will take advantage of them.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>ABC News Finds The Dark Side Of Adoption</title>
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    <published>2008-05-18T16:31:24-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-18T19:03:33-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
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    <category term="Adoption Ethics" />
    <category term="Child Abduction" />
    <category term="Child Trafficking" />
    <category term="China" />
    <category term="Guatemala" />
    <category term="India" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
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<p>Would somebody care to tell me what's going on at ABC News? This past week, the network posted not one, but four stories about child kidnapping and adoption. There was <a href="http://www.abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=4774224&amp;page=1">&quot;China's Lost Children&quot;</a>, <a href="http://www.abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=4787761&amp;page=1">&quot;U.S. Adoptions Fueled by Guatemalan Kidnappings&quot;</a>, <a href="http://ttp://www.abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=4823713&amp;page=1">&quot;An Adoption Nightmare&quot;</a> and <a href="http://www.abcnews.go.com/TheLaw/story?id=4342760&amp;page=1">&quot;Spirited Away: Japan Won't Let Abducted Kids Go&quot;</a>.</p>
<p>The stories, all written or co-authored by Russell Goldman, are puzzling on many levels. Usually, packages of this sort are hung on a national or international news peg, but I can't find one. The Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption, which could help curtail the adoption of children not legally free for adoption, came into force in the United   States more than a month ago. National Missing Children's Day, created by John Walsh's National  Center for Missing &amp; Exploited Children, is next week. UNICEF is preoccupied with Myanmar, China and children's health. There are no new statistics in the ABC reports, no novel number-crunching.</p>
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<p>Would somebody care to tell me what's going on at ABC News? This past week, the network posted not one, but four stories about child kidnapping and adoption. There was <a href="http://www.abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=4774224&amp;page=1">&quot;China's Lost Children&quot;</a>, <a href="http://www.abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=4787761&amp;page=1">&quot;U.S. Adoptions Fueled by Guatemalan Kidnappings&quot;</a>, <a href="http://ttp://www.abcnews.go.com/International/story?id=4823713&amp;page=1">&quot;An Adoption Nightmare&quot;</a> and <a href="http://www.abcnews.go.com/TheLaw/story?id=4342760&amp;page=1">&quot;Spirited Away: Japan Won't Let Abducted Kids Go&quot;</a>.</p>
<p>The stories, all written or co-authored by Russell Goldman, are puzzling on many levels. Usually, packages of this sort are hung on a national or international news peg, but I can't find one. The Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption, which could help curtail the adoption of children not legally free for adoption, came into force in the United   States more than a month ago. National Missing Children's Day, created by John Walsh's National  Center for Missing &amp; Exploited Children, is next week. UNICEF is preoccupied with Myanmar, China and children's health. There are no new statistics in the ABC reports, no novel number-crunching.</p>
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<p>I don't mean to suggest by this--as have some of the readers of these stories on the Internet--that child abductions have not been a factor in adoption. They most certainly have been. And, as Lisa noted <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/lisas/ending-adoption-in-guatemala-does-not-end-kidnappings">in this post</a>, the kidnappings will not end even if adoptions are discontinued. There are too many other nefarious forces at work.</p>
<p>But why write about child abduction now? And why pick these stories to do so? There is no attempt to link the facts and themes in these stories, no &quot;globalizing 'graph&quot; as we called that kind of paragraph in the newsrooms I've been in. And of all the kinds of child abduction to feature, why focus on parental abduction to Japan, where the reporter says there are just 39 open cases involving 47 children? The report also reprises the oft-told tale of how two kidnapped Indian sisters came to be adopted by Desiree and David Smolin--a decade ago.</p>
<p>If one wanted to write about child abduction, there seems to be a lot more reporting on this subject that could be done right here in the United States: <a href="http://www.ncmec.org/en_US/documents/nismart2_overview.pdf">According to a 2002 report by the U.S. Justice Department</a>, 797,500 children were reported missing in a one-year period and 203,900 of them were abducted by a parent.</p>
<p>Why write about this now? Well, May is a so-called sweeps month, when Nielsen Ratings counts up how many people are watching television. Sweeps happen four times a year and what they show about which programs are being watched and what kinds of people are doing the watching are a critical factor in determining what a television network can charge for advertising in that show. A cynical person might be tempted to think that a few shows on a controversial subject were marshaled to goose the ratings.</p>
<p>The most frustrating thing about these stories is not their reporting or timing, or even that some prospective adoptive parents will be scared away from adopting abroad. It is that, once again, time that could have been spent tackling a key child welfare problem has been wasted.</p>
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    <title>New York City Gets Tough On Child Welfare</title>
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    <published>2008-05-15T21:06:23-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-15T21:06:23-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
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    <category term="Child Removal" />
    <category term="Foster care" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="UNICEF" />
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<p>If you want to start a firestorm, forget the matches. All you really need to get a spark is to say you are going to do something about child welfare.</p>
<p>Want proof? Since <a href="http://www.ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/feb-2008/lisas/unicef-continues-its-anti-adoption-crusade">Lisa told you</a> a few months back about how UNICEF's child welfare stance favors anything but adoption, her post has been read more than 600 times. UNICEF sees its work as benevolent; its critics, like Elizabeth Bartholet, the founder and director of Harvard  Law School's Child Advocacy Program, see the opposite. <a href="http://www.law.harvard.edu/faculty/bartholet/IA_TheChildsStory.pdf">Here's what she wrote</a> in an article just published in the <i>Georgia State University Law Review</i>:</p>
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<p>Opposition to international adoption cannot be justified based on any best interest of the child principle, despite the claims of many children&rsquo;s rights organizations. Instead it is grounded in a group of commonly shared but deeply flawed ideas about children and the role of the state, and driven by adult agendas that are not truly informed by children&rsquo;s interests.</p>
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<p>If you want to start a firestorm, forget the matches. All you really need to get a spark is to say you are going to do something about child welfare.</p>
<p>Want proof? Since <a href="http://www.ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/feb-2008/lisas/unicef-continues-its-anti-adoption-crusade">Lisa told you</a> a few months back about how UNICEF's child welfare stance favors anything but adoption, her post has been read more than 600 times. UNICEF sees its work as benevolent; its critics, like Elizabeth Bartholet, the founder and director of Harvard  Law School's Child Advocacy Program, see the opposite. <a href="http://www.law.harvard.edu/faculty/bartholet/IA_TheChildsStory.pdf">Here's what she wrote</a> in an article just published in the <i>Georgia State University Law Review</i>:</p>
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<p>Opposition to international adoption cannot be justified based on any best interest of the child principle, despite the claims of many children&rsquo;s rights organizations. Instead it is grounded in a group of commonly shared but deeply flawed ideas about children and the role of the state, and driven by adult agendas that are not truly informed by children&rsquo;s interests.</p>
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<p>Now, it's New York City's turn to stoke the debate on what is in the best interest of a child--but from a completely opposite point of view. Stung by a string of high-profile child abuse cases, the city enacted in late April a law to speed the removal of children from troubled homes. The city's not-unreasonable position is that children born into homes that have already been flagged for child abuse problems are at substantial risk and should be placed in safer foster care.</p>
<p>Foster care in New York City is far from perfect. The city, like many places around the country has difficulty recruiting parents that won't be solved by a <a href="http://www.ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/wal-mart-donates-to-foster-care-awareness-campaign">$75,000 donation from Wal-Mart</a>. But those limitations are a poor justification for keeping children in biological homes that are incapable of or unwilling to provide for their well-being.</p>
<p>But predictably there are groups that see New York's law as government at its high-handed worst. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/15/nyregion/15remove.html?ex=1368590400&amp;en=5caf518998721059&amp;ei=5124&amp;partner=permalink&amp;exprod=permalink">According to a report today</a> in <i>The New York Times</i>, the National Coalition for Child Protection Reform--a critic of foster care in America--called it a &quot;confiscation-at-birth policy.&quot; The Child Welfare Organizing Project, a New York City-based group that says it is dedicated to child welfare reform there, waived a red flag for the law to be litigated as a violation of civil rights.</p>
<p>And they don't seem to have even discovered that UNICEF has its headquarters in New York City.</p>
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    <title>Wal-Mart Donates To Foster Care Awareness Campaign</title>
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    <published>2008-05-15T07:05:34-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-15T07:05:34-05:00</updated>
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      <name>VirginiaC</name>
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    <category term="National Council For Adoption" />
    <category term="Philanthropy" />
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<p><a href="http://www.adoptioncouncil.org/">The National Council For Adoption</a> put out a press release yesterday <a href="http://www.adoptioncouncil.org/documents/NCFA-Wal-Mart-AtkinsnewsreleaseNationalFosterCareMonth.pdf">announcing </a>that <b>Wal-Mart Stores Inc.</b> is helping it launch a campaign to recruit more foster parents in the United   States. The program is called &quot; Families For All&quot; and Wal-Mart is supporting it with a $75,000 donation.</p>
<p>So, being the kind of person who likes to put numbers in context, I started looking for some context for that number.</p>
<p>Wal-Mart is, according to Forbes, the 16th-largest company in the world, with annual sales that last year topped $378 billion. Last year, <a href="http://walmartstores.com/CommunityGiving/8010.aspx?p=231">the Wal-Mart Foundation gave $296 million</a> to charities in the U.S. and says that Wal-Mart employees and customers contributed another $106 million. (The foundation has a program to match hours spent in volunteering with a contribution to the volunteer's charity.) That, plus Wal-Mart's international giving put its total philanthropy for 2007 at $470 million.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.adoptioncouncil.org/">The National Council For Adoption</a> put out a press release yesterday <a href="http://www.adoptioncouncil.org/documents/NCFA-Wal-Mart-AtkinsnewsreleaseNationalFosterCareMonth.pdf">announcing </a>that <b>Wal-Mart Stores Inc.</b> is helping it launch a campaign to recruit more foster parents in the United   States. The program is called &quot; Families For All&quot; and Wal-Mart is supporting it with a $75,000 donation.</p>
<p>So, being the kind of person who likes to put numbers in context, I started looking for some context for that number.</p>
<p>Wal-Mart is, according to Forbes, the 16th-largest company in the world, with annual sales that last year topped $378 billion. Last year, <a href="http://walmartstores.com/CommunityGiving/8010.aspx?p=231">the Wal-Mart Foundation gave $296 million</a> to charities in the U.S. and says that Wal-Mart employees and customers contributed another $106 million. (The foundation has a program to match hours spent in volunteering with a contribution to the volunteer's charity.) That, plus Wal-Mart's international giving put its total philanthropy for 2007 at $470 million.</p>
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<p>What does Wal-Mart give to? The company and its foundation have identified four key areas: education and the workforce, healthcare and the environment. It donated $67 million to the former last year, and $39 million to healthcare. But causes that were not on the priority list also got a lot of money. Wal-Mart gave $5 million to the America's Second Harvest network of food banks and another $35 million in merchandise. In late April, Wal-Mart upped the ante, <a href="http://news.moneycentral.msn.com/ticker/article.aspx?Feed=PR&amp;Date=20080430&amp;ID=8565597&amp;Symbol=WMT">announcing </a>that it was expanding its relationship with America's Second Harvest to get the food pantries meat and bakery items, and pledging $1.5 million to the charity. (As an aside, last summer, I got to profile America's Second Harvest's chief executive, <a href="http://www.wachovia.com/file/Transitions_sum07.pdf">Vicki Escarra</a>. She is a talented and dedicated leader.) Wal-Mart also gave $1 million this February to the Red Cross Society of China for disaster relief after a series of heavy snowstorms in that country.</p>
<p>So what will the NCFA, a Washington, D.C.-based adoption advocacy group, do with the $75,000 it is getting from Wal-Mart? According to its press release, the money will be spent on public service announcements, a Web site, and a virtual radio and television news tour by Rodney Atkins, a country music star who is now the NCFA's spokesperson.</p>
<p>That's a big agenda for not very much money. I can't help but think that the NCFA would get more bang for its buck if it simply turned around and spent the money on signs at every Wal-Mart checkout line.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Combating International Adoptee Culture Fatigue</title>
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    <published>2008-05-14T21:01:44-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-14T21:01:44-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
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    <category term="Culture" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="Russia" />
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<p>Late last night, after the kids had gone to bed and <i>Dancing With The Stars</i> had danced, I got to sit down with my Russian cultural stash. This is the pile of books and magazines that I have put aside to read to learn about the country of my children's birth. It is an actual, physical pile, quite separate from all those Web site bookmarks that have piled up on del.icio.us.</p>
<p>What's in the pile? A copy of &quot;War and Peace&quot;, since I'm trying to make some headway with the works of Leo Tolstoy. Several issues of <i>Russian Life</i>, a wonderful little bi-monthly that I discovered last year, as well as&nbsp;<i>Readings</i>, its quarterly literary companion. This latter magazine is a real gem since each issue takes a theme and then presents, in English, excerpts of Russian novels and poems on that theme. The first issue was subtitled &quot;The hearts of dogs&quot;; the second is &quot;Three Russian springs&quot;. Many of the items are short enough to make them good reading with the kids. Oh, and in a fit of literary masochism, I asked the town library to see if it could get a hold of &quot;The Magical Chorus&quot;, Solomon Volkov's new history of Russian culture from Tolstoy to Solzhenitsyn.</p>
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<p>Late last night, after the kids had gone to bed and <i>Dancing With The Stars</i> had danced, I got to sit down with my Russian cultural stash. This is the pile of books and magazines that I have put aside to read to learn about the country of my children's birth. It is an actual, physical pile, quite separate from all those Web site bookmarks that have piled up on del.icio.us.</p>
<p>What's in the pile? A copy of &quot;War and Peace&quot;, since I'm trying to make some headway with the works of Leo Tolstoy. Several issues of <i>Russian Life</i>, a wonderful little bi-monthly that I discovered last year, as well as&nbsp;<i>Readings</i>, its quarterly literary companion. This latter magazine is a real gem since each issue takes a theme and then presents, in English, excerpts of Russian novels and poems on that theme. The first issue was subtitled &quot;The hearts of dogs&quot;; the second is &quot;Three Russian springs&quot;. Many of the items are short enough to make them good reading with the kids. Oh, and in a fit of literary masochism, I asked the town library to see if it could get a hold of &quot;The Magical Chorus&quot;, Solomon Volkov's new history of Russian culture from Tolstoy to Solzhenitsyn.</p>
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<p>But, much as I am committed to keeping my kids connected with Russia, I am beginning to resent this pile just a tad. I really want to finish Gus Speth's &quot;The Bridge At The End Of The World&quot; before next week's environmental studies class. And don't ask me for my list of the modern American novels I'd love to read now. Yup, it sounds suspiciously like the <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/juliec/new-parents-don%E2%80%99t-over-schedule-yourself">parental burnout</a> that Julie wrote about the other day.</p>
<p>I used to imagine that domestic adoptee parents had it easier, but I've come to realize that their must-read list of adoption-related books is every bit as long as mine. The bio parents in town are circling through the same playing fields I am, so I know they are short on time. But I can't help but feel that life has got to be a bit easier when you are not trying to keep up with the culture of a country on the other side of the world too.</p>
<p>Maybe I'm going to have to try <a href="http://ouradopt.com/amazon/review/book-review-the-girls-lori-lansens">Sandra's technique</a> of having upstairs and downstairs books.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Orphanages Hit By China Quake</title>
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    <published>2008-05-12T20:46:14-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-08-05T14:45:36-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
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    <category term="China" />
    <category term="Earthquake" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p>A massive earthquake struck China today and Great Wall China Adoption, one of the largest agencies active in China adoptions, is saying that several orphanages that regularly send it referrals have been affected.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>A massive earthquake struck China today and Great Wall China Adoption, one of the largest agencies active in China adoptions, is saying that several orphanages that regularly send it referrals have been affected.</p>
<p>Great Wall has created a relief fund for the affected orphanages in Sichuan and Chongqing provinces. It is pledging any money received to rescue efforts and reconstruction projects. You can learn more about it <a href="http://www.gwca.org/newsroom/bulletin/view?donate-earthquake-5-2008">here</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24573168">According to the Associated Press</a>, the quake, which had a magnitude of 7.9, struck north of Sichuan's provincial capital of Chengdu but was felt as far away as Vietnam. The news agency is estimating that the quake has killed 10,000 people and injured many more.</p>
<p>We'll add orphanage relief effort details to this post as they become available. Please check back for updates.</p>
<p><i>UPDATE 5/13: Other </i><a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/choosing-an-adoption-agency" target="_blank"><i>adoption agencies</i></a><i><i> </i>active in China say they are awaiting word from the China Center of Adoption Affairs, China's central adoption authority, on the extent of damage to the orphanages and what the CCAA needs in the way of aid.</i></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>The Golden Age Of International Adoption Has Passed</title>
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    <published>2008-05-12T13:00:58-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-12T14:03:14-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="China" />
    <category term="Guatemala" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
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<p>You've seen the <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/angelaw/international-adoption-statistics-2007">drop in inter-country adoptions to the United States</a>. Some of you have experienced the slow-downs in <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-russia">Russia</a>, <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-china">China </a>and <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-korea">South Korea</a>. Maybe you are trying to sort out the new rules in <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/angelaw/ukraine-kazakhstan-vietnam-adoption-changes-single-parents-older-pare">Ukraine</a>, or cope with the upheaval in <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/lisas/bad-news-from-guatemala-and-another-reason-to-contact-your-congressmen">Guatemala </a>and the impeding closure of <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/virginiac/good-night-vietnam">Vietnam </a>to American adoptive parents. There's a larger trend at work here, I think, and it is quite simply this: The golden age of international adoption is now behind us.</p>
<p>&quot;Golden Age&quot; has been a metaphor applied to many events in world history, from the rule of Elizabeth I in medieval England to the invention of radio and television. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_Age_%28metaphor%29">Wikipedia defines it</a> as &quot;a period in a field of endeavor when great tasks were accomplished&quot;, which seems right on the mark for today's discussion of adoption.</p>
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<p>You've seen the <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/angelaw/international-adoption-statistics-2007">drop in inter-country adoptions to the United States</a>. Some of you have experienced the slow-downs in <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-russia">Russia</a>, <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-china">China </a>and <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-korea">South Korea</a>. Maybe you are trying to sort out the new rules in <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/angelaw/ukraine-kazakhstan-vietnam-adoption-changes-single-parents-older-pare">Ukraine</a>, or cope with the upheaval in <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/lisas/bad-news-from-guatemala-and-another-reason-to-contact-your-congressmen">Guatemala </a>and the impeding closure of <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/virginiac/good-night-vietnam">Vietnam </a>to American adoptive parents. There's a larger trend at work here, I think, and it is quite simply this: The golden age of international adoption is now behind us.</p>
<p>&quot;Golden Age&quot; has been a metaphor applied to many events in world history, from the rule of Elizabeth I in medieval England to the invention of radio and television. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_Age_%28metaphor%29">Wikipedia defines it</a> as &quot;a period in a field of endeavor when great tasks were accomplished&quot;, which seems right on the mark for today's discussion of adoption.</p>
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<p>The golden age of international adoption began with the opening of Korea to adoptions by Americans a little more than 50 years ago. The process begun there made it possible, over the ensuing decades, for Americans--and the other nationalities that followed us--to give new lives to tens of thousands of children around the world who had been orphaned by war, famine, economic upheaval and politics.</p>
<p>It wasn't perfect, this golden age. None of them has ever been. Some children were trafficked, some birth mothers coerced, some bad matches were made between children and adoptive parents, and some intermediaries with more interest in financial gain than child welfare were allowed to operate for too long. But on balance, great tasks were accomplished, and children who had bleak futures have gone on to better lives.</p>
<p>Korea has long since stopped being a war-ravaged nation, Russia has recovered its economic equilibrium and China no longer stringently enforces the one-child rule. <a href="http://unstats.un.org/unsd/cdb/cdb_series_xrxx.asp?series_code=13700">The United Nations has documented</a> declining fertility rates in many of the world's countries. And so it is relatively certain that inter-country adoptions to the U.S. will fall again this year and the next, and well on into the future.</p>
<p>Should we then mourn the passing of the golden age of international adoption? No, I don't think so. International adoptions will be fewer in number, but they will not go away. We in the adoption community have an opportunity now to build on the Hague Convention reforms country by country to make the international adoption experience better for children and parents. And we certainly have an opportunity to apply what we have learned abroad to improving adoption at home. A golden opportunity, I think.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Picking An Agency For A Russian Adoption</title>
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    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/picking-an-agency-for-a-russian-adoption</id>
    <published>2008-05-12T06:33:53-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-08-05T14:07:46-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="adoption agency" />
    <category term="Adoption Process" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="Karen&#039;s List" />
    <category term="Russia" />
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<p>Last week, Angela pointed out that <a href="http://www.karensadoptionlinks.com/index.html">Karensadoptionlinks.com</a> had revived its list of <a href="http://ouradopt.com/newz/russian-region-and-adoption-agencies">the adoption agencies that operate in Russia, by region</a>. I think it's a useful list, but maybe not for the reason its creators had intended.</p>
<p>Few prospective adoptive parents go into a Russian adoption saying something like, &quot;I want to adopt from Novosibirsk, which agencies operate there?&quot; Russia is simply too vast and I found, when adopting my younger son from Sakhalin  Island, even Russians can have a sketchy idea of its geography. The exception to this seems to be prospective parents with a fear of flying. While Russia does meet the minimum safety requirements of the International Civil Aviation Organization, its accident record (compiled <a href="http://aviation-safety.net/database/country/country.php?id=RA">here </a>by the Flight Safety Foundation, an arm of the company that pioneered pilot simulator training) can cause trepidation. I've known parents who have chosen their agency because it handled adoptions within driving or train distance of Moscow and St. Petersburg.</p>
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<p>Last week, Angela pointed out that <a href="http://www.karensadoptionlinks.com/index.html">Karensadoptionlinks.com</a> had revived its list of <a href="http://ouradopt.com/newz/russian-region-and-adoption-agencies">the adoption agencies that operate in Russia, by region</a>. I think it's a useful list, but maybe not for the reason its creators had intended.</p>
<p>Few prospective adoptive parents go into a Russian adoption saying something like, &quot;I want to adopt from Novosibirsk, which agencies operate there?&quot; Russia is simply too vast and I found, when adopting my younger son from Sakhalin  Island, even Russians can have a sketchy idea of its geography. The exception to this seems to be prospective parents with a fear of flying. While Russia does meet the minimum safety requirements of the International Civil Aviation Organization, its accident record (compiled <a href="http://aviation-safety.net/database/country/country.php?id=RA">here </a>by the Flight Safety Foundation, an arm of the company that pioneered pilot simulator training) can cause trepidation. I've known parents who have chosen their agency because it handled adoptions within driving or train distance of Moscow and St. Petersburg.</p>
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<p>But what I think is really helpful about Karen's list is that it shows which agencies are trying to operate in Russia without being fully accredited. Over the last few years, <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-russia">Russia </a>has been moving to discourage adoptions that are not handled by an accredited agency, although it has not formally ruled out independent adoptions. Russia has set up a two-step licensing process, which is lengthy and expensive. An <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/choosing-an-adoption-agency" target="_blank">adoption agency</a> must first register as a non-governmental organization, which is a fancy way of saying a group that has no ties to any outside government. Once an agency has NGO status, and it has been in business in its home country for five years, it can apply for accreditation. How long that might take for a first-time agency is unclear, because no new agency has yet gotten through it. I can tell you, however, that it has taken more than a year for previously accredited agencies to win re-accreditation under Russia's new rules.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Now I know that the time frames for adopting from countries like <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-china">China </a>and <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-korea">South   Korea</a> has gotten very long in the last few years. But do you really want to step into an adoption from Russia knowing that the agency you have selected has not completed all the steps it might need to see you to the end of your adoption? Do you want to wait while that paperwork is completed?&nbsp;</p>
<p>The U.S. Embassy in Moscow used to post a list of agencies that had NGO status and a separate list of accredited agencies; <a href="http://www.usembassy.ru/consular/consular.php?record_id=adoptions">its Web site</a> now only has the latter. So you might want to check out the agencies you are considering on Karen's list.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Alarmist Headlines On Adoptee Mental Health</title>
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    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/alarmist-headlines-on-adoptee-mental-health</id>
    <published>2008-05-09T19:25:05-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-09T19:25:05-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Adoptee health" />
    <category term="domestic adoption" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="Mental Health" />
    <category term="University of Minnesota" />
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<p>On May 5, the University  of Minnesota released a study on the mental health of adolescents who had been adopted as infants. Researchers at the university, which has consistently been one of the best sources for information on the life outcomes of internationally adopted child, compiled a very large study group: 540 non-adopted teens, 514 who had been adopted from abroad and 178 teens adopted from within the U.S. Their goal was to see whether there was any basis for continuing concern about adoptees being at heightened risk for mental health problems, particularly among children who had been adopted internationally.</p>
<p>The study was published as <a href="http://archpedi.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/short/162/5/419">&quot;The Mental Health of U.S. Adolescents Adopted in Infancy&quot;</a> in the May issue of the <i>Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine</i>. It found that most adopted teens in America are psychologically healthy and, to quote the journal's abstract on the study, &quot;adoptees scored only moderately higher than nonadoptees on quantitative measures of mental health&quot;.</p>
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<p>On May 5, the University  of Minnesota released a study on the mental health of adolescents who had been adopted as infants. Researchers at the university, which has consistently been one of the best sources for information on the life outcomes of internationally adopted child, compiled a very large study group: 540 non-adopted teens, 514 who had been adopted from abroad and 178 teens adopted from within the U.S. Their goal was to see whether there was any basis for continuing concern about adoptees being at heightened risk for mental health problems, particularly among children who had been adopted internationally.</p>
<p>The study was published as <a href="http://archpedi.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/short/162/5/419">&quot;The Mental Health of U.S. Adolescents Adopted in Infancy&quot;</a> in the May issue of the <i>Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine</i>. It found that most adopted teens in America are psychologically healthy and, to quote the journal's abstract on the study, &quot;adoptees scored only moderately higher than nonadoptees on quantitative measures of mental health&quot;.</p>
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<p>But you wouldn't have gotten the impression of &quot;moderately&quot; from reading the mainstream press. This is the headline and deck on <a href="http://www.latimes.com/features/health/medicine/la-na-adoptees6-2008may06,0,1025766.story">the story that ran in the <i>Los Angeles Times</i></a>:</p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Adopted youths more likely to have mental disorders</b></span></p>
<p><b>They're twice as likely as nonadopted peers to have ADHD or oppositional defiant disorder, according to a study of adolescents adopted as babies.</b></p>
<p>But what's really interesting to me is that <a href="http://www.chicagotribune.com/features/health/chi-adoptees-06-may06,0,233588.story">the story originated at <i>The Chicago Tribune</i></a>, and here's the head and deck from that paper:</p>
<p><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Study: Adolescents adopted as infants are more likely to have psychiatric disorders</b></span></p>
<p><b>They face a greater risk for attention deficit-hyperactivity disorder and oppositional defiant disorder, researchers say</b></p>
<p>So how much greater are the mental health risks to adoptees, really? Margaret Keyes, the study's director, told the reporters that her study should not alarm adoptive parents.</p>
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<p>Being born male -- adopted or not -- also is a risk factor for disruptive behavior disorders, she said, &quot;but no one is overly concerned when they give birth to a son.&quot;</p>
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    <title>Colorado Finds Trouble In Adoption Agencies</title>
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    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/colorado-finds-trouble-in-adoption-agencies</id>
    <published>2008-05-08T20:45:07-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-08-05T14:34:01-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="adoption agency" />
    <category term="Adoption Process" />
    <category term="Claar Foundation" />
    <category term="Colorado Department of Human Services" />
    <category term="Commonwealth Adoption International" />
    <category term="Friends of Children of Various Nations" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
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<p>Colorado has released the results of its investigation into the business practices of 22 international <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/choosing-an-adoption-agency" target="_blank">adoption agencies</a> that operate in the state--and they're not pretty.</p>
<p><a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/mar-2008/virginiac/colorado-scrutinizes-inter-country-adoption-agencies">As I told you in March</a>, the review was prompted by complaints from prospective adoptive parents of excessive fees and by the closings of three agencies that had operated in the state: Claar Foundation, Commonwealth Adoption International and Friends of Children of Various Nations. The Colorado Department of Human Services wanted to see if its regular agency audits were accurate and authentic, and whether its licensing requirements were sufficient.</p>
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<p>Colorado has released the results of its investigation into the business practices of 22 international <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/choosing-an-adoption-agency" target="_blank">adoption agencies</a> that operate in the state--and they're not pretty.</p>
<p><a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/mar-2008/virginiac/colorado-scrutinizes-inter-country-adoption-agencies">As I told you in March</a>, the review was prompted by complaints from prospective adoptive parents of excessive fees and by the closings of three agencies that had operated in the state: Claar Foundation, Commonwealth Adoption International and Friends of Children of Various Nations. The Colorado Department of Human Services wanted to see if its regular agency audits were accurate and authentic, and whether its licensing requirements were sufficient.</p>
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<p>And the answer is: sort of. Colorado found that nearly half of the international adoption agencies licensed there are operating at a loss, and five agencies have liabilities that exceed their assets.</p>
<p>The net losses range from $13,242 to $857,223, but Colorado cautioned that a bigger loss did not necessarily mean that the agency's viability was in bigger trouble. That's because some of the agencies are part of larger organizations with healthier balance sheets. Colorado singled out both Catholic Charities-Denver (which had the largest loss) and Lutheran Family Services ($187,221 in the red) as examples of this. Of the 12 agencies that reported a profit, the majority were well under $100,000 in the black.</p>
<p>Of the five agencies whose liabilities exceeded their assets, four were by a substantial margin. Commonwealth, which has since closed, had assets of $1,068,154, but liabilities of $1,854,204. Angeldance International had assets of just $563 and liabilities of $129,091.</p>
<p>Colorado noted that some of the complaints lodged against Commonwealth and Claar by prospective adoptive parents were outside its purview. But it says in its report that it found three &quot;substantial violations&quot; at Adopt A Miracle for adoptions from Ukraine, which are being investigated by the state attorney general. (On its Web site, Adopt A Miracle says it is beginning adoptions from Russia this summer. It does not, however, appear on the <a href="http://www.usembassy.ru/consular/consular.php?record_id=adoptions#5">list of agencies accredited by the Russian government</a> that is maintained by the U.S. Embassy in Moscow.)</p>
<p>In its report, Colorado proposed a series of steps to better insure that agencies will remain solvent until an adoption is completed. Some, like requiring that agencies be bonded and carry liability insurance, are already the norm in states like California. Others, like mandating that parents not pay for services that have not happened, are also a requirement if an agency seeks Hague treaty accreditation. Some, like imposing an assets-to-liabilities ratio, are just common sense.</p>
<p>While part of me thinks that it would be nice if every state did this kind of public review, in the end, prospective adoptive parents are their own best defense: You are putting a lot of money on the line; you have every right to know that it will be handled correctly. Feel free to ask the same questions that Colorado asked of any agency you are considering.</p>
<p>You can read the full text of Colorado's report, including an agency by agency tally of finances and violations, <a href="http://www.cdhs.state.co.us/pdfs/International%20Adoption%20Agency%20Investigation.pdf">here</a>.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Frank Talk From Korea</title>
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    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/frank-talk-from-korea</id>
    <published>2008-05-08T05:53:08-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-29T23:02:41-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Holt International Adoption Agency" />
    <category term="Korea" />
    <category term="murder" />
    <category term="Steven Sueppel" />
    <category term="Transracial adoption" />
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<p>This morning, the Korean news agency Yonhap <a href="http://english.yonhapnews.co.kr/Interview/2008/05/08/13/0901000000AEN20080508000100315F.HTML">posted an interview</a> that contains some of the most candid comments about international adoption that I have ever seen from an agency official.</p>
<p>The speaker is a daughter of Harry and Bertha Holt, the American couple who opened <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-korea">Korea </a>to international adoption more than 50 years ago, and created the <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/a-sea-change-in-korea">modern model for inter-country adoptions by Americans</a>. Molly Holt began helping her parents with adoptions in 1956, when she was 19, and now lives near Seoul at a home that Holt runs for 250 homeless disabled people.</p>
<p>The backdrop for this interview is the fact that, in March, Iowan <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/mar-2008/virginiac/murder-in-an-iowa-town">Steven Sueppel murdered</a> his wife and the four Korean children they had adopted through Holt International Adoption Agency. Sueppel, who later committed suicide, had been charged with embezzling more than $500,000 from his former employer . In the interview, Holt asserts that finding a family is still best for an orphan, but concedes that not all adoptions work out as planned.</p>
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<p>This morning, the Korean news agency Yonhap <a href="http://english.yonhapnews.co.kr/Interview/2008/05/08/13/0901000000AEN20080508000100315F.HTML">posted an interview</a> that contains some of the most candid comments about international adoption that I have ever seen from an agency official.</p>
<p>The speaker is a daughter of Harry and Bertha Holt, the American couple who opened <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-korea">Korea </a>to international adoption more than 50 years ago, and created the <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/a-sea-change-in-korea">modern model for inter-country adoptions by Americans</a>. Molly Holt began helping her parents with adoptions in 1956, when she was 19, and now lives near Seoul at a home that Holt runs for 250 homeless disabled people.</p>
<p>The backdrop for this interview is the fact that, in March, Iowan <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/mar-2008/virginiac/murder-in-an-iowa-town">Steven Sueppel murdered</a> his wife and the four Korean children they had adopted through Holt International Adoption Agency. Sueppel, who later committed suicide, had been charged with embezzling more than $500,000 from his former employer . In the interview, Holt asserts that finding a family is still best for an orphan, but concedes that not all adoptions work out as planned.</p>
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<blockquote> We tried to find all the best families for our precious children, but sometimes they didn't have good families. They divorced, or they abused children. But it's amazing sometimes how wonderful the children turned out even in sad circumstances. Sometimes there were wonderful families and children ran away. </p></blockquote>
<p>Holt told Yonhap that she is committed to continuing to help create &quot;happy families&quot;. You can read her interview to Yonhap <a href="http://english.yonhapnews.co.kr/Interview/2008/05/08/13/0901000000AEN20080508000100315F.HTML">here</a>.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Recycling Children</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/recycling-children" />
    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/recycling-children</id>
    <published>2008-05-07T14:54:06-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-07T14:54:06-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Adoptive parenting" />
    <category term="Overpopulation" />
    <category term="Talking about adoption" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p><img border="0" align="right" alt="Recycling logo" src="http://ouradopt.com/files/u6/recycle.jpg" />On April 20, <i>The New York Times</i>' <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/indexes/2008/04/19/magazine/index.html">Sunday magazine</a> was a thought-provoking issue on ways to reduce the impact that we humans are having on our planet's air, water, soil and natural resources. Those of you who have been reading me for a while know that I am a tree-hugger, and so I happily dove into yet another <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/20/magazine/20wwln-lede-t.html">great essay by Michael Pollan</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/04/magazine/04letters-t.html?ref=magazine">The letters to the editor</a> about that issue were published just this past Sunday and one of them caught my eye. It read:</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p><img border="0" align="right" alt="Recycling logo" src="http://ouradopt.com/files/u6/recycle.jpg" />On April 20, <i>The New York Times</i>' <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/indexes/2008/04/19/magazine/index.html">Sunday magazine</a> was a thought-provoking issue on ways to reduce the impact that we humans are having on our planet's air, water, soil and natural resources. Those of you who have been reading me for a while know that I am a tree-hugger, and so I happily dove into yet another <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/20/magazine/20wwln-lede-t.html">great essay by Michael Pollan</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/04/magazine/04letters-t.html?ref=magazine">The letters to the editor</a> about that issue were published just this past Sunday and one of them caught my eye. It read:</p>
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<p>Other than a tangential mention, human overpopulation went unaddressed in your issue. It&rsquo;s a sad fact that in these times there is no such thing as an &ldquo;environmentalist&rdquo; with more than one kid &mdash; unless the additional ones are adopted, of course.</p>
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<p>Though I try hard to be greener than green, I never looked at adoption as an environmental issue. I made the choice to <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-russia">adopt from Russia</a> because I thought I would make a good mom and my Mr. Right just kept morphing into Mr. Wrong. But the letter writer does make a valid point: The huge growth of the Earth's population in the last century has placed great strains on the planet. China imposed the one-child policy on its citizens 30 years ago in part because it feared its farmers couldn't feed the country any other way.</p>
<p>Of course, China's plan didn't work out quite as intended. Families had more than one child and, under duress, left the girls at state-run orphanages. Unicef believes that there are some <a href="http://ouradopt.com/content/adopting-from-china">20 million orphans in China now</a>, despite years of adoption by foreign parents. And China's environment is crumbling anyway because the laws that would protect it are either non-existent or not enforced. That's another blog entirely.</p>
<p>But maybe children should be thought of as a natural resource, and one that is every bit as fragile and finite as the air, water and soil. Maybe, before we think of having more, we should care for those already on the planet. Anybody for a T-shirt that reads &quot;Recycle Kids--Adopt&quot;?</p>
<p><span style="font-size: smaller;"><i>Image credit: Microsoft ClipArt</i></span></p>
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  <entry>
    <title>A Sea Change In Korea</title>
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    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/a-sea-change-in-korea</id>
    <published>2008-05-05T20:57:16-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-05T20:57:16-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="domestic adoption" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="Korea" />
    <category term="Korean Adoption" />
    <category term="South Korea" />
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<p><a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/virginiac/good-night-vietnam">When Vietnam retaliated last week</a> against a scathing report about its adoption processes by closing to American families, the news was all over the blogosphere in a nanosecond. But something happened yesterday in the Asian adoption world of far greater importance, and it hardly got a blink: A report that Korean domestic adoptions last year exceeded inter-country adoptions for the first time ever.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/nation/2008/05/123_23596.html">According to a story in <i>The Korea Times</i></a>, 1,388 orphans the Republic  of Korea--what we colloquially call South Korea--were adopted by Korean families in 2007. Just 1,264 others were adopted by foreign families. If you prefer things in percentages, it was 52.3% domestic and 47.7% inter-country. It is a stunning change in the nation that has set the tone for international adoptions for more than half a century.</p>
<p>Fifty-two years ago, an American couple began a revolution in adoption by bringing home eight children from a country that had been ripped apart--literally--by war. Harry and Bertha Holt were their names, which live on in the agency they founded, Holt International. To make their adoptions happen, the Holts had to get the U.S. Congress to pass a special law permitting international adoptions--and they did it. But when it passed, Korean war orphans, and children shunned by their society because they were born to Korean mothers and foreign soldier fathers, could start new lives in other corners of the world.</p>
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<p><a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/virginiac/good-night-vietnam">When Vietnam retaliated last week</a> against a scathing report about its adoption processes by closing to American families, the news was all over the blogosphere in a nanosecond. But something happened yesterday in the Asian adoption world of far greater importance, and it hardly got a blink: A report that Korean domestic adoptions last year exceeded inter-country adoptions for the first time ever.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/nation/2008/05/123_23596.html">According to a story in <i>The Korea Times</i></a>, 1,388 orphans the Republic  of Korea--what we colloquially call South Korea--were adopted by Korean families in 2007. Just 1,264 others were adopted by foreign families. If you prefer things in percentages, it was 52.3% domestic and 47.7% inter-country. It is a stunning change in the nation that has set the tone for international adoptions for more than half a century.</p>
<p>Fifty-two years ago, an American couple began a revolution in adoption by bringing home eight children from a country that had been ripped apart--literally--by war. Harry and Bertha Holt were their names, which live on in the agency they founded, Holt International. To make their adoptions happen, the Holts had to get the U.S. Congress to pass a special law permitting international adoptions--and they did it. But when it passed, Korean war orphans, and children shunned by their society because they were born to Korean mothers and foreign soldier fathers, could start new lives in other corners of the world.</p>
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<p>Fifty-two years ago, Korea was a devastated country with few prospects for the kind of jobs that can keep a family together. It was a country in which the purity of family bloodlines mattered so much that, if unrelated children were taken in at all, it was in utmost secrecy. Not the kind of country in which domestic adoptions could flourish.</p>
<p>A few years ago, Korean government officials estimated that, in the last half century, 150,000 Korean children were adopted into families around the world, more than 99,000 of them by American families. It has created a huge Diaspora, some with good adoption experiences, some not. But as Seoul was releasing those statistics, government officials were lending weight to changes that would support more domestic adoptions: Adoption authorities would have to work harder to find parents in the country before turning their attention to parents abroad. And, as Koreans changed their country into one of the world's most dynamic economies, they have also changed their mindset toward adopting children from outside their family trees. It has been a healthy and necessary step. Domestic adoptions in Korea still aren't enough to keep pace with the country's orphan population, but that they are there at all is really quite amazing.</p>
<p>Korea created a framework for the adoptions that would follow from Colombia, Brazil, Guatemala, Russia, Ethiopia and so many, many more countries. Some of these countries have already entered what I will call the second stage of adoption, supporting new parents from within their own borders. Many more will undoubtedly follow. But until every orphan has a loving home, it will never be enough.</p>
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<div><span style="font-size: smaller;"><i>Image credit: </i></span><a href="http://www.morguefile.com/archive/?display=168224&amp;"><span style="font-size: smaller;"><i>Old Grey Sea Wolf at Morguefile.com</i></span></a></div>
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  <entry>
    <title>A Lifetime Of Talking</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/a-lifetime-of-talking" />
    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/a-lifetime-of-talking</id>
    <published>2008-05-05T14:56:13-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-05T14:56:13-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Adoptive parenting" />
    <category term="Bonding" />
    <category term="Communication" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p><img width="193" height="186" border="0" align="right" alt="Campfire" src="/files/u6/campfire.jpg" /></p>
<p>I can camp in a tent, I enjoy cold weather and the sound of rain at night. Unfortunately, I am not so good with cold rain and a leaky tent while I'm trying to sleep, which is what happened this weekend at my older son's scouting event. So I was already a bit grumpy when I went into the camp's mess hall to hear what turned out to be a not-too-subtle sales pitch to keep our kids in scouting.</p>
<p>I am not opposed to scouting. I like its emphasis on <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/virginiac/sane-parenting-and-the-adopted-child">self-reliance</a> and on <a href="http://ouradopt.com/amazon/review/what-im-reading-last-child-in-the-woods">getting kids in contact with nature</a>. No, what bugged me was that the presenter was trying to assert that we needed scouting because we had only had a few years to parent our kids--basically birth to driver's license--and we needed to pack all our communication and bonding into those few years.</p>
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<p>I can camp in a tent, I enjoy cold weather and the sound of rain at night. Unfortunately, I am not so good with cold rain and a leaky tent while I'm trying to sleep, which is what happened this weekend at my older son's scouting event. So I was already a bit grumpy when I went into the camp's mess hall to hear what turned out to be a not-too-subtle sales pitch to keep our kids in scouting.</p>
<p>I am not opposed to scouting. I like its emphasis on <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/virginiac/sane-parenting-and-the-adopted-child">self-reliance</a> and on <a href="http://ouradopt.com/amazon/review/what-im-reading-last-child-in-the-woods">getting kids in contact with nature</a>. No, what bugged me was that the presenter was trying to assert that we needed scouting because we had only had a few years to parent our kids--basically birth to driver's license--and we needed to pack all our communication and bonding into those few years.</p>
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<p>What nonsense.</p>
<p>Now as an older parent (I was 43 when I adopted the older of my two kids from Russia), I know full well that I will likely have fewer years on earth together with my kids than I have had with my parents. That's simple math on a life-expectancy table. But jumping from that to an assertion that my influence over my son's life ends when he can drive himself to lacrosse practice is just nuts. If I tried to pack everything my kids are going to need to know about life (assuming I even know what that would be) into a conversation now, much of it would go unheard because it has no relevance to their lives right now. But if I am doing my job right, I am setting a framework for communication and bonding that will last through every stage of our lives together. We will be able to talk even as his</p>
<p>Adoptive parents think more about communication and bonding than bio parents and we may work harder at these skills, too. We can't assume natural connections with our children about interests--we have to ask questions and build on the answers. We have to repair disrupted bonds, and reassure our kids that the bonds we are building with them are permanent, no matter what life holds. <a href="http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/apr-2008/guestblogger/an-unfixable-child">John recently struck a chord</a> with hundreds of you when he wrote about some of the difficulties he has experienced with his middle son and how they remain a family nevertheless.</p>
<p>Communication and bonding may begin around a campfire, but they definitely don't end there.</p>
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<div><span style="font-size: smaller;"><i>Image credit: Microsoft ClipArt</i></span></div>
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  <entry>
    <title>Can $100 Keep A Family Together?</title>
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    <id>http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/may-2008/virginiac/can-100-keep-a-family-together</id>
    <published>2008-05-02T20:57:55-05:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-12T14:02:17-05:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>VirginiaC</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Birth Family" />
    <category term="eBay" />
    <category term="International adoption" />
    <category term="Microfinance" />
    <category term="MicroPlace" />
    <category term="Philanthropy" />
    <category term="Poverty" />
    <category term="Village Banking" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p><img alt="Money" align="right" border="0" src="http://ouradopt.com/files/u6/money.jpg" />Poverty and adoption are, unfortunately, never very far apart. Whether the subject is domestic adoption or inter-country adoption, the economic status of the birth family is all too often well below the national norm. One further truth: There aren't enough adoptive families for all the children in the world who need them. These two realizations drive many adoptive parents to search for ways to aid orphanages and keep fragile birth families together. Even so, you might be surprised to learn that <b>eBay</b> has stepped up to do the latter.</p>
<p>Two years ago, the online auction giant quietly acquired a company called <a href="https://www.microplace.com/">MicroPlace</a>. Started by Stanford Business School graduate Tracey Pettengill Turner, MicroPlace aims to make it easier to get Third World entrepreneurs the relatively tiny bits of capital they need to start a business. A mother who can make enough money to feed her family is much more likely to be able to keep that family together.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p><img alt="Money" align="right" border="0" src="http://ouradopt.com/files/u6/money.jpg" />Poverty and adoption are, unfortunately, never very far apart. Whether the subject is domestic adoption or inter-country adoption, the economic status of the birth family is all too often well below the national norm. One further truth: There aren't enough adoptive families for all the children in the world who need them. These two realizations drive many adoptive parents to search for ways to aid orphanages and keep fragile birth families together. Even so, you might be surprised to learn that <b>eBay</b> has stepped up to do the latter.</p>
<p>Two years ago, the online auction giant quietly acquired a company called <a href="https://www.microplace.com/">MicroPlace</a>. Started by Stanford Business School graduate Tracey Pettengill Turner, MicroPlace aims to make it easier to get Third World entrepreneurs the relatively tiny bits of capital they need to start a business. A mother who can make enough money to feed her family is much more likely to be able to keep that family together.</p>
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<p>MicroPlace didn't invent microfinance: That honor goes to organizations like Accion International, started in Venezuela in the 1960s, and Grameen Bank, which popped up in Pakistan in the early 1980s. When I was reporting on immigrant entrepreneurs in New York City in the 1990s, there was a microfinance group there called TrickleUp. All of these groups, and the others I have forgotten to name, operate on the simple principle that people in Third World Countries and people in poverty don't need multibillion-dollar loans to grow a business. A small sum, about the price of a bag of groceries to the rest of us, will do just fine. And when their business grows, they can feed their families and put some money into helping the next generation of entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>Pettengill Turner's contribution to the world of microfinance was to realize that the Internet made it possible for ordinary people to back these microfinance operations--not just the world's big financial institutions. EBay obviously was already heavily involved in online transactions and in building up entrepreneurs so acquiring MicroPlace was perhaps a natural next step.</p>
<p>Here's how it works. MicroPlace's Web site makes it easy to select a country or region of the world in which to invest. Then you can pick a project to invest in and decide how much to invest. The site's calculator tells you immediately how many entrepreneurs will be aided by your investment, and what the rate of return on your funding is expected to be. MicroPlace says that, to date, it has generating 20,000 loans to the world's working poor.</p>
<p>The countries in which MicroPlace operates do not include the world's top adoption destinations: It doesn't work in China, Russia, Guatemala or Ethiopia. But it does work in countries that have concluded adoptions with the United States, including India, Brazil, Ukraine, Kazakhstan and 17 other countries.</p>
<p>This is a novel twist to orphan philanthropy, which many of you are already contributing to. If you are looking for a new opportunity, this could be one to check out.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: smaller"><i>Image credit: Microsoft ClipArt</i></span></p>
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