Home

Adoption Under One Roof

Covering adoption from every angle, every view, for everyone

Main Menu

  • Home
  • How To Adopt
    • Getting Started With Adoption
    • Adoption Types, Costs, Timeline
    • Hague Intercountry Adoption Treaty
    • Definition of Adoption Terms
  • Resources
    • Foster Care
      • Contests
    • After Adoption
      • Searching for a Birthmother
    • Adoption Statistics
  • Blogs
    • Guest Blogger
      • Dee Thompson
      • Janine
      • Jeanette Schnell
      • John
        • Older Child Adoption
        • humpty series-older child adoption
      • Linda Lach
      • Linny
      • Marjorie Shaw
        • A Legitimate Life: A Forbidden Journey of Self Discovery
      • Michael
      • Patricia Dischler
      • Scrapsbynobody
      • Shelia Davis
      • Susan Metters
    • Adoption Maharishi
    • Amy Adoptee
    • AngelaW
    • Ask An Adoptee
    • FaithA
      • Baby Names
      • Trauma Thursday
      • Trauma Tuesday
    • Foster Mommy
      • Educational Testing and Assessments
      • Friday Activities
    • Julia Fuller
      • Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Diaries
      • Parenting Mistakes Saturday
    • JulieC
      • Friday Funnies
      • How To Tuesday
        • How To Tuesday
      • Hump Day Hippie
      • JulieC's Sites to See
    • LisaS
      • Chanuka is not Christmas with a twist, teaching your adopted child's friends about Chanukah,
      • Corrupt and Questionable Adoption Agencies
      • Making the World a Better Place
      • Running With Scissors
    • Sandra Hanks Benoiton
  • Polls
  • About Us
    • Blog and Comment Posting Policy
    • Contact Us
Home

Adoption advocacy

396 Children Still Stuck in Adoption Nightmare in Guatemala; “Baby Nola” is One of Them but She is Now Almost Three

Submitted by LisaS on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 23:35
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Adoptive family
  • Guatemalan adoption
  • Intercountry adoption

This weekend my dear friend “P” and her husband “M” are flying to Guatemala City. This is their "umpteenth" trip since they accepted the referral for baby Nola 2 year, 10 months, 3 weeks and 1 day ago. Pam has made four trips in the last two months – one of which my daughter and I joined.

P and her husband are going to give POA to a new lawyer to handle the adoption; the lawyer who was (mis)handling their case (and was my daughter’s lawyer by the way) recently announced that he was not going to continue with this case. No surprise – he has done almost nothing in the last 2 years.

There are 395 other children stuck in various hogares (orphanages) in Guatemala, and a few fortunate ones who were left living with their foster families until their adoptions are complete.

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Each Day 25,000 Children Die Unnecessarily

Submitted by LisaS on Wed, 09/01/2010 - 11:04
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Anti-adoption
  • Charitable organizations
  • Children's Issues
  • Closed adoption
  • don't give money to UNICEF
  • Guatemalan adoption
  • Haiti
  • Intercountry adoption
  • Philanthropy
  • Talking about adoption
  • time to disband UNICEF
  • Transracial adoption
  • United Nations

Yes, according to UNICEF this is the number of children who die around the world every day for any number of reasons, the reasons unfortunately not mentioned in their newest radio ad. Halloween is in the future and this is their fundraising season; they have a famous movie star with a dramatic voice giving these stats - too bad he didn’t do his homework before he agreed to support this top heavy and corrupt organization that is totally an “end in itself” as opposed to being a “means to an end.”

Any of you who have read my previous posts condemning UNICEF for wasting money, bribing countries to close adoption, corruption, lying, and rarely putting children’s interests first, may question my using their “numbers” when it is convenient. There is a reason for this: I think that is the only thing UNICEF does  well – count starving, sick, and orphaned children. Gross over exaggeration on my part? Perhaps, but I doubt it.

So UNICEF is asking you to give them money for their various funds. Before you put your hand in your pocket, pull out your check book, or click “PayPal” please consider the following facts:

1. UNICEF is anti-intercountry adoption PERIOD. They view adoption as the “last resort” for a child who is not being parented by any family member, nuclear or extended. UNICEF claims that orphanages are not ideal, but support keeping children in them under the pretense that they are “pro-reunification of parents and children” who have been separated for various reasons in third world countries: storms, earthquakes, famine, war, hurricanes, floods and the list goes on.

Point in case Haiti – UNICEF is fighting to halt all adoptions from Haiti telling the world they want to reunite children with their parents down the road. When? How? Well, that isn’t really their concern. They talk the talk but don’t walk the walk. Children are living on the street and in filthy tents, being sold into prostitution and slavery, but not being placed for adoption.

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Updates on Katie Kramer (adoptee in desperate need of a bone marrow transplant) and Baby Vanessa (custody battle in Ohio court)

Submitted by LisaS on Thu, 08/26/2010 - 23:07
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Adoption Ethics
  • Adoptive parenting
  • birth father rights
  • Birth parents
  • China
  • domestic adoption
  • Intercountry adoption

To date Katie Kramer does not have a perfect match for a bone marrow transplant she desperately needs. If you are interested in being tested to be a bone marrow donor for Katie or anyone else in need, please click here for more information.

This is one of the latest updates from Katie’s mother:

The appointment at Stanford has been rescheduled for next Thursday. Katie will have a GFR test (for kidney function), then we will meet with the cardiologist and then the oncologist. It will be a very long day, but we are hoping to come home with a plan for the transplant. It has been four months since we learned that Katie has relapsed, so we are ready to move forward with this transplant. It appears more and more that she will either have a transplant from the 9/10 donor they have found, or have a transplant using double cord blood units.

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Keeping Intercountry Adoption Ethical and Transparent is Crucial to its Integrity and Perpetuity

Submitted by LisaS on Tue, 08/17/2010 - 13:05
  • Adoption advocacy
  • don't close all the doors to intercountry adoption
  • Intercountry adoption
  • International adoption

Let me begin this blog by clearing stating that I’m an advocate of intercountry adoption; I was before I adopted my daughter in 2006 and continue to be today even though the media and various organizations, UNICEF among them, have turned “intercountry adoption” into the newest cuss words.

Tragically, many proponents of intercountry adoption have allowed themselves to be silenced by strong criticism of adoption and horror stories of children being snatched from their parents’ arms and sold to adoptive parents. Others have been convinced by biased and inaccurate reporting (at best) and downright lies (at worst), that intercountry adoption is wrong, immoral and results in cultural genocide perpetuated by insensitive imperialist and morally bankrupt people in developed countries taking cruel advantage of the voiceless, repressed and unrepresented poor and needy in developing countries in order to “feel good about themselves helping these poor children."

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Due Process Clause and Closed Adoptions

Submitted by FaithA on Mon, 08/16/2010 - 06:59
  • 14th amendment
  • Adoptee rights
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • adoption birth certificates
  • adoption laws
  • Closed adoption
  • closed adoptions
  • denying adoptees access to birth certificates
  • Due Process Clause
  • Equal Protection Clause
  • Fourteenth Amendment
  • original birth certificate
  • sealing original birth certificate

Clock tower (c) Lynda BernhardtOn the blog entry entitled Dear Adoption Maharishi: Do Adoption Laws Violate the 14th Amendment?, John posted the following comment:

Its the words that come before the ones you emphasized [the Equal Protection Clause] that are applicable, '...without due process of law...'. Due process is what courts do, it is also what the legislative and administrative branches of government do. An adoption law legally proposed, evaluated and enacted is due process.

Felons may never be able to vote after conviction, yet there is no 14th amendment issue, due process was followed. The indiviual felon did not get a court hearing on his particular right to vote, it was dictated by the legislature, and that was due process. Indeed all members of that group, felons, are treated equally. ~ John

I have to respectfully disagree with John on this topic and will explain my reasons why. I welcome discussion by John and other readers on this issue. I hope that one day the U.S. Supreme Court will address these issues directly.

  • FaithA's blog
  • 9 comments
  • Read more

Good News on the Guatemalan Adoption Front

Submitted by LisaS on Fri, 08/06/2010 - 10:01
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Adoption Ethics
  • Adoption Process
  • Adoptive parenting
  • Guatemala Embassy / DC
  • Guatemalan adoption
  • JCICS
  • news
  • PGN/CNA
  • President Colom

From the Guatemala900 Initiative Website: August 3, 2010

Guatemala Minister Counselor Fernando de la Cerda is returning to Washington, DC today after an intense 10 day trip to Guatemala which included 2 meetings with Guatemala President Alvaro Colom. Fernando is reporting significant progress in finding solutions for moving the adoption cases of the Guatemala900 forwards towards resolution. Fernando’s efforts in Guatemala also included individual meetings with the PGN, CNA, Court of Appeals, MP, and with his own Department of Foreign Ministry.

On Monday, July 26th, President Colom hosted a meeting with the highest level officials from the PGN, CNA, MP and several high level lawyers. The purpose of the meeting was to discuss adoptions, including the resolution of the grandfathered cases. The same group along with the Deputy Secretary of Interior and high level officials from the Secretaría de Bienestar Social (SBS) convened again on Monday, August 2nd and will do so again next Monday, August 9th. Fernando reports that President Colom was sympathetic to the children who are in limbo and spearheaded discussions with the other officials about how cases can start to accelerate towards resolution. Fernando is optimistic that end result should be some significant measurable progress in the coming weeks and months.

As a condition, the officials in Guatemala are requesting information on the remaining cases. Specifically, Guatemala is asking for : • Adoptive Family’s Names • Child’s Name • Biological Mother’s Name • PGN or CNA identification Number

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Should the Children Adopted From Haiti After the Earthquake Have Been Left in Haiti? Hell No!

Submitted by LisaS on Thu, 08/05/2010 - 20:58
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Adoption Ethics
  • Adoption Process
  • Adoptive family
  • Adoptive parenting
  • Anti-adoption
  • anti-adoption jibberish
  • Closed adoption
  • Haitian adoption after the earthquake
  • Human Trafficking
  • Intercountry adoption
  • Transracial adoption
  • US adoption laws

70,000 deaths recorded, PM says

I knew it was simply a matter of time before the shit hit the fan about the adoptions from Haiti following the big earthquake in January 2010. After reading  this lengthy article on the online NY Times, I decided it was time to post my opinion on the subject because frankly pro-ethical and transparent intercountry adoption advocates are being intimidated into silence these days.

Not surprisingly my old nemesis UNICEF raised its ugly head in the anti-Haitian adoption rhetoric spewing out of the mouths and computers of people who generally have no frigging idea what life in an orphanage or third world country can be like and often believe that intercountry adoption is cultural genocide. Pardon me, UNICEF actually likes orphanages – thinks they are a better solution for children living in third world countries than being adopted out of their country. As one Guatemalan said to me during my recent trip to Guatemala:

  • LisaS's blog
  • 2 comments
  • Read more

Our GuatemalanTrip: Part II: Our Favorite Resident at the Orphanage

Submitted by LisaS on Wed, 08/04/2010 - 10:48
  • Adoptee health
  • Adoptee rights
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Adoption Ethics
  • Adoption Process
  • Adoptive family
  • Adoptive parenting
  • Guatemalan adoption
  • Intercountry adoption
  • International adoption
  • Philanthropy
  • taking your adopted child to their country of birth
  • Transracial adoption

Continuing from my previous blog, we arrived back at the orphanage Hogar Solidario with the children much later than planned. The bus Ella and I were on kept breaking down on the way back from the zoo and finally we caught up with the other two buses and transferred over to them. When we arrived at the orphanage the children dispersed quickly and Gloria, the lovely Guatemalan woman who arranged this whole trip with the orphanage directors for our group, had our donations taken to be inventoried while we began a tour of the orphanage.

What can I say – this is a beautiful well thought out orphanage. [ASIDE: Contrary to what we’ve been hearing in the news in the US, UNICEF DID NOT GIVE A CENT TOWARDS THE BUILDING OF THIS ORPHANAGE] The idea for this orphanage was planted three presidential terms ago, but it was Alvaro Colom ,Guatemala’s present President who ensured that it was completed. You can view photos of it on this  youtube presentation – we were not allowed to take photos when we were inside the orphanage.

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Our Guatemalan Trip: Part I: The Children of the Orphanage

Submitted by LisaS on Tue, 08/03/2010 - 12:49
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Adoptive parenting
  • Guatemala
  • Intercountry adoption
  • orphange in Guatemala
  • visiting Guatemala with my adopted Guatemalan born daughter

In my first blog about my daughter Ella and I’s recent trip to Guatemala, I mentioned that our group took 100+ children from Hogar Solidarios to the Guatemalan City Zoo for the day.

It was a beautiful cool sunny  morning, typical of the wonderful temperate climate of Guatemala, when we hopped onto buses in Guatemala City and drove to the Hogar (orphanage). It was slow going due to traffic congestion, road construction and some narrow roads and tight corners for the buses to maneuver. By the time we arrived at the Hogar almost an hour later, we had exited the thick blanket of smog that covers Guatemala City day and night. I was relieved that the children of the orphanage were living in such clean mountain air.

The gates to the Hogar opened and our group went in to meet the 100+ children of the over 500 living in this Orphan Village who had been chosen to spend the day with us visiting the zoo in Guatemala City – a rare treat for children who almost never exit the Hogar.

  • LisaS's blog
  • Login or register to post comments
  • Read more

Dear Adoption Maharishi: Do Adoption Laws Violate the 14th Amendment?

Submitted by Adoption_Maharishi on Wed, 07/28/2010 - 06:08
  • 14th amendment
  • Adoptee rights
  • Adoptees
  • Adoption advocacy
  • adoption birth certificates
  • adoption laws
  • DAM
  • Dear Adoption Maharishi
  • denying adoptees access to birth certificates
  • Equal Protection Clause
  • Fourteenth Amendment
  • original birth certificate
  • sealing original birth certificate

Dear Adoption Maharishi,

I am really bothered by the fact that adult adoptees are denied access to their original birth certificates in many states. I can think of no other group of people who are categorically denied access to their own records without having any say. How can this practice comply with the equal protection clause of the 14th amendment?

~ Frustrated

  • Adoption_Maharishi's blog
  • 3 comments
  • Read more
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 6
  • 7
  • 8
  • 9
  • next ›
  • last »

User login

  • Create new account
  • Request new password

Archive

  • August 2010 (40)
  • July 2010 (53)
  • June 2010 (46)
  • May 2010 (47)
  • April 2010 (41)
  • March 2010 (51)
  • February 2010 (49)

More >>>

Popular content

Today's:

  • Guest Blog: Humpty Dumpty Had a Great Fall - I’m Outta Here
  • Birth Parent, Adoptive Parent - Whose Child is it Anyway?
  • 396 Children Still Stuck in Adoption Nightmare in Guatemala; “Baby Nola” is One of Them but She is Now Almost Three

All time:

  • International Adoption Statistics for 2007
  • Guest Blog: Humpty Dumpty Had a Great Fall - I’m Outta Here
  • Trauma Tuesday: Orgasms During Rape and Sexual Abuse

Last viewed:

  • Teen brother of suspect in moms slaying is arrested
  • Should Race Matter in the Adoption Process?
  • Adoptive Parents’ Secret Wish List

Recent comments

  • About your inquiry...
    1 hour 19 min ago
  • I assume your son's adoption
    3 hours 25 min ago
  • This question too, is one that I often wonder about...
    4 hours 36 min ago
  • My Horrible Typo!
    13 hours 33 min ago
  • Seeding or Salting..
    15 hours 18 min ago
  • The word "not", sorry my misundetstanding.
    13 hours 52 min ago
  • Unknown Father, I just found
    18 hours 29 min ago
  • This is a great solution
    1 day 16 hours ago
  • Long Term Planned and Closed Adoption
    1 day 16 hours ago
  • I certainly will...
    1 day 23 hours ago
Site Map
© 2010 Adoption Under One Roof LLC. All Rights Reserved. email: info at ouradopt.com
Opinions expressed in posts and blogs belong to the person who is expressing them. So then it follows that these opinions are not those of Adoption Under One Roof.
RoopleTheme