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A Bee up my Butt on Adoption: Gloomy Forecast for 2010

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Fri, 01/01/2010 - 13:59
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Fully expecting the international adoption situation to continue to disintegrate over this year as it has over the past few, starting 2010 off with some common sense thoughts on the topic seems a good idea. Easy enough today, with this in the news:

 

Police in Nigeria have arrested a doctor suspected of impregnating girls and selling their babies. The police said they found five pregnant girls aged between 12 and 17 at the doctor's clinic in the south-eastern town of Enugu. The police said the man had confessed to getting the girls pregnant and selling their children. He is to face charges in court. Trafficking is common in Nigeria, with children sold for labour and sex work. In 2008, police raided a private hospital in Enugu which they said was a "baby farm". Seven pregnant young women were found.

 

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Art? Hm ... Deffo not adoption, though

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Tue, 04/28/2009 - 03:57
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Not art either

Opening caveat: This is not about international adoption.

The story that follows is no more about adoption than was last year's Zoe's Ark fiasco.

Now that that's out of the way, we can all spend a few minutes being appalled while I attempt to head off any tarrings of adoption with the brush so publicly wielded at the pass. It's this story titled, "An artist's ego ... and adoption" that winds my spring this morning, starting off as it does ...

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Keeping Track of Dead Kids

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Tue, 04/07/2009 - 01:46
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Writing last night about Hope and Mercy 

and the tragic reality of the lives and deaths of children in the world led me to GlobalIssues.org where this article titled "Today, over 25,000 children died around the world", laid the situation out clearly.

That is equivalent to: * 1 child dying every 3.5 seconds * 17-18 children dying every minute * A 2004 Asian Tsunami occurring almost every 1.5 weeks * An Iraq-scale death toll every 16–38 days * Over 9 million children dying every year * Some 70 million children dying between 2000 and 2007

 

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Hope and Mercy ... two girls with none of either

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Mon, 04/06/2009 - 13:53
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africa dead treesTwo things present themselves this evening as I tuck my children into bed and prepare for sleep myself. The first, the tragic news that the daughter of a friend has died. Hope was legally adopted in the African country of her birth, but refused entry into the US, and now this little girl is no more, and the family that longed for her is thousands of miles from her ... and mad as hell. So am I. This is not my story to tell, but it will be yet told, so watch this space.

Given the recent spate of news on the refusal of the government of Malawi to proceed on Madonna's second adoption attempt,

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While I'm at it ...

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Wed, 04/01/2009 - 14:24
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poor aids malawi madonnaWhile I'm at it ...

Cogitating on the blog I posted earlier and posting a comment reply sent me to Raising Malawi's website, and reading there has me running back under this roof with just a bit more to chew on.

With Ethica challenging the adoption community to come up with a whopping $2,240 to save poor Mercy James from the fate of being adopted by Madonna, it seems a good time to post this little bit of reality:... "Raising Malawi and Hope of Hope: Partnering to Empower Vulnerable Kids".

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Politically Incorrect, Me ...

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Wed, 04/01/2009 - 12:03
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Okay ... I know I'm going WAY out on the politically incorrect branch of the adoption tree, but this "call to action" from Ethica smacks of so much hooey to me. 

... we are calling to action to raise funds to assist Mercy James to be cared for within her country with her extended family of origin. The annual average salary in Malawi is $160.00. If we provide those funds for the care of Mercy James for the next 14 years, we believe not only could she stay with her family, but she should also be able to be educated within her own country. 

Don't get me wrong. I'm a fan and supporter of the organization and have been for years. As a voice for reform they are respected, and as a resource their site is good value.

But ...

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Guest Blog: Don't Get Scammed in Adoption Like I Did

Submitted by GuestBlogger on Wed, 03/25/2009 - 23:01
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Today we have an important and emotional Guest Blog from Teresa Legler, who shares her struggles with dishonest people and adoption scams while in pursuit of her dream to become a mother, in the hopes that others will learn from her experiences, and not have to endure the same pain and suffering as she has had to face.

Hello.  I live in Canada.  For the past 20 years all I have ever wanted is to be a mother, which is not physically possible for me so in the past few years I have been trying to adopt with unfortunate results.  One baby was stillborn the second at the last minute the birth mother changed her mind without letting me know.

By the end of last year I was heartbroken and becoming more desperate to become a mother since I just turned 45.

On December 6th I was browsing on the Internet and say an add in the local Buy and Sell announcement section stating "Mother looking for family to adopt child".  I was very skeptical but by this time it was like the message was just waiting for me so I answered the add.
A woman by the name of "Clara Banks" started e-mailing back and forth with her desperately sad story and pictures of her beautiful little boy and I fell in love.  Her story was heartbreaking saying she was living in Cameroon as a mercenary with a church because her family had disowned her and her son "Phillip".
 

After a few days she told me she had decided I was the person she wanted to raise her son.  It was the happiest time of my life.  She gave me the name of a lawyer she said her Pastor had given her stating he would help with the adoption.

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Eureka! Family in Canada Completes Adoption From Swaziland

Submitted by LisaS on Tue, 03/17/2009 - 08:30
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Swaziland has been devastated by the AIDS epidemic; 43% of the population is HIV positive. It recently surpassed Botswana as the country with the world's highest known prevalence rate; within the next 30 years the population of more than a million is expected to be wiped out. You would think that there would be more interest in doing everything possible to save the children, adoption being a viable and promising option, but tragically there has been little of that. Domestic adoption is hardly an option with such a huge percentage of the population infected with HIV, life expectancy at 40 years of age, and poverty endemic.

However, one very fortunate Canadian couple, Jan and Dean Ference became one of the first couples from a group of Canadians adopting from Swaziland to bring home their son from Swaziland.

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Privileged ... or prisoners?

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 03:32
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With great pride, the First Lady of Rwanda has announced the opening of a new orphanage ... let's hear it for institutional living, shall we?

Or not.

No doubt as state-of-the-art as a brand spanking new central African orphanage can be ... and at the cost of $1.5 million it's bound to be shiny ... and funding from an American missionary organization, the Rafiki Foundation ensures the obligatory heath/schooling/indoctrination aspects that come with $1.5 million tossed at African kids.

 

Pardon my cynicism, please, but I'm a bit leery of aid with strings ... as if there was another sort ... but when the First Lady touts the new facility's donors approach as " ... raising children in a God-fearing environment while equipping them with life saving skills as a positive attitude needed to raise responsible children the country needs," I cringe.

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Orphan Numbers Increase ... again

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Sun, 02/22/2009 - 03:50
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effects of povertyAt the same time international adoptions are becoming progressively problematic, wait times extend beyond the realm of the tolerable and more and more countries shut down programs, the number of orphans in the world is increasing "dramatically".

As this article illustrates, the World Initiative for Orphans Foundation has published new figures.

WIO has estimated that the dramatic figure of 200 million young and extreme vulnerable children without parental care, has been reached. ... This unprotected group of more than 200 million orphaned and abandoned children is estimated to grow within the next five years to around 250 million. In 2015, it is predicted, 400 million children and young people will directly or indirectly fall into this category. They have no or limited access to education, food, medical care and family love, and are defenseless against abuse, exploitation and child labour.

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