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Birth Mother Imprisoned for Raping 14-Year-Old Birth Son

Submitted by FaithA on Wed, 07/14/2010 - 06:32
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Spider (c) Lynda BernhardtThe following news story was published yesterday with the benign title: Mom jailed over sex with 14-year-old son. Sit back because I am climbing on the soapbox this morning. The headline should be the one I used for this blog entry, and it angers me that the media continues to try to soft peddle this form of abuse just because it was a “mother” who did the abusing.

Keep in mind that I come to this story with two life experiences that most people don’t have – I am the parent of an adopted son, and I am a survivor of mother-daughter sexual abuse, which IS rape. I have been raped by both men and women. I can tell you firsthand that rape by a woman is just as traumatizing as rape by a man, and it is doubly damaging when that woman is your own mother – the one person on the planet who is supposed to keep you safe.

Here are the facts based upon this article – Aimee L. Sword (now 36) placed her baby for adoption as a newborn. In 2008, she used Facebook to find her then-14-year-old birth son. She had sexual relations with the child in Waterford Township (where she lived) and in Grand Rapids. She pled guilty to one count of first-degree criminal sexual conduct and has been sentenced to nine to 30 years in prison.

People – that is rape. Let’s reword the story as if was a birth father who raped his birth daughter:

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Number of Children in Foster Care Decreased Since 2002

Submitted by FaithA on Mon, 06/07/2010 - 06:46
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Children in window (c) Lynda BernhardtI love when I get to share good news on my blog, and I have some good news to share this morning. According to this article, the number of children living in foster homes has dropped dramatically across several states. The article states that the number of children in foster care in New York City has dropped from almost 28,000 in 2002 to under 16,000. Hooray!

The article further states that, as of 2008, the number of children in foster care nationwide has dropped 11% since 2002, from 523,000 foster children in 2002 to 463,000 foster children in 2008. While my heart breaks for the high number of children who still have no forever family, I am thrilled see the numbers moving in the right direction.

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Russia & US Adoption Agreement Hopeful by Mid-June

Submitted by FaithA on Mon, 05/17/2010 - 06:24
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Last week, the Associated Press reported that Russia and the United States are moving closer toward working out an agreement so that adoptions can resume. According to an Associated Press article, the hope is that an agreement will be reached by mid-June. It’s a shame that waiting children and families will have wait to another month, but the news could have been another year … or forever.

Russia halted adoptions to the United States last month after an adoptive grandmother put a seven-year-old adoptee named Artyom Savelyev back on a plane to Russia alone, leaving roughly 3,000 hopeful adoptive families in limbo until the two countries can agree upon certain terms. According to this article, Russian officials want more control over the living conditions of Russian adoptees after they move to the United States.

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Russia Has Suspended Adoptions by Americans

Submitted by FaithA on Thu, 04/15/2010 - 10:45
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Swing set (c) Lynda BernhardtI am deviating from my usual Trauma Thursday format to cover breaking news … Russia has suspended adoptions by Americans pending reaching an agreement on adoption procedures. You can read the fully story here.

The suspension was prompted by adoptive mother Torry Hansen’s decision to return her seven-year-old adopted child Artyom Savelyev to Russia. You can read my blog entry here for the details. In short, this is one big, fat mess for any American who is currently in the process of adopting a child from Russia.

According to the Associated Press article, Russian authorities were “incensed” that the seven-year-old boy was flown back to Russia unsupervised by his adoptive family with nothing but a note explaining why he was being returned to his country of birth. The article goes on to state that the Russian authorities are “outraged” that the United States has not filed charges against Ms. Hansen or her grandmother. Under current laws, the Russian government has no way to prosecute either woman.

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Adoptive Grandmother Sent Adopted Child Back to Russia Alone

Submitted by FaithA on Mon, 04/12/2010 - 07:31
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Thorny plant (c) Lynda BernhardtIf you have been following the news over the weekend, you have probably heard that a U.S. grandmother sent a seven-year-old adopted child back to Russia alone, which has resulted in the possibility of Russia putting a halt to adoptions with the United States. You can read the full story here.

According to the article, the boy, Artyom Savelyev, was adopted in September by a woman named Torry Hansen, who lives in Tennessee. His adoptive grandmother put him on an airplane with a one-way ticket to Russia with a note saying that “he was violent and had severe psychological problems.” The adoptive family claims that they feared for their safety. Understandably, the Russian government is less than pleased with how this disrupted adoption was handled, and now hundreds of pending adoptions could be put on hold or stopped.

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Trauma Tuesday: Child Abuse and Neglect Fatalities

Submitted by FaithA on Tue, 12/29/2009 - 08:37
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Here is a depressing thought to consider at the close of the year – child abuse fatalities are on the rise. According to a report posted on the Every Child Matters website, 10,440 children died from child abuse and neglect from 2001 through 2007. That is a sobering statistic.

Here are more disturbing statistics from the same report: In 2001, 1,300 children died from child abuse or neglect in the United States. In 2007, the number rose to 1,760. Seventy five percent of the children were under age four, 13% were 4-7 years old, and 11% were 8 or older.

It gets worse. In thousands of these cases, people had contacted child protective services because they were concerned about the children being in danger. Unfortunately, thanks to tight budgets and staff that is stretched too thin, these children’s lives were not saved.

According to this report, these numbers might actually be low. The report states:

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Guatemala “Might” Initiate an Intercountry Adoption Pilot Program

Submitted by LisaS on Tue, 12/08/2009 - 08:39
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The National Adoption Council of Guatemala, the central committee responsible for handling adoption in Guatemala since the previous adoption system was shut down in 2007, is initiating a pilot program for intercountry adoption. This pilot program will include only four countries, but which countries has yet to be announced.

The JCICS (Joint Council of International Children’s Services) has verified that the U.S. Department of State has submitted a letter of interest to the Guatemalan government regarding participation in this pilot program. Seven other countries wrote a letter of interest as well.

The JCICS also made it very clear that this does not mean that adoption is reopening. The JCICS also reported that:

1. Potential adoptive parents may initiate a Hague adoption by submitting an I-800A with the National Benefits Center for a Guatemalan adoption, but this application cannot be processed through to a completed adoption. Guatemala is still not compliant with the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption.

2. The Government of Guatemala has not published a time-line for country selection nor initiation of the pilot program.

3. The Government of Guatemala has not provided assurances that the pilot program will actually be initiated.

4. The Government of Guatemala has not published the criteria by which they intend to accredit foreign adoption service providers. Based on the announcement published on the Guatemalan Central Authority’s website, only one (1) adoption service provider will be selected per country for participation in the pilot program.

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Adoption News: U.S. Supreme Court Declines Review of Adoption FMLA Case

Submitted by FaithA on Wed, 11/11/2009 - 07:16
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The U.S. Supreme Court has declined to hear a case appealed from the Fourth Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals that ruled in favor of protecting the rights of adoptive parents under the Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA). Bottom line – This is good news for adoptive families who plan to adopt internationally or out of foster care. You can read a detailed description of the facts here and the Fourth Circuit’s decision here.

Jim Dotson was a salesman for a pharmaceutical company called Pfizer. Dotson and his wife decided to adopt a child from Russia, which requires two trips. Dotson kept his employer apprised of his plans. Soon after Dotson returned from Russia with his adopted daughter, Aselya, he was fired.

The parties disagree as to the reason for the firing. According to Pfizer, Dotson gave the orphanage unauthorized samples of Zithromax (an antibiotic uses to treat infections), which violated company policy. However, two of the people involved in firing him knew about his plan to donate the samples, made no effort to stop him, and were not disciplined afterward for their inaction.

Dotson asserts that he was illegally fired for asserting his rights under the FMLA. Pfizer claimed that:

FMLA does not provide for the type of intermittent adoption-related leave that he took. ~ Dotson v. Pfizer

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Illegal adoptions in the News

Submitted by FosterMommy on Mon, 09/21/2009 - 22:11
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Earlier this week in Cairo, anEgyptian judge convicted two American couples of human trafficking in illegal adoptions. The Americans were sentenced to two years in prison. Some feel that the murky legislation on child adoption in this predominantly Muslim country contributed to the illegal adoption. Besides prison time, each must pay $18,153 in fines. The U.S. Embassy in Cairo had become suspicious of the couples earlier this year when they tried to remove their children from Egypt. The arrest took place in December and the trial was held in May on the charges of forgery and child trafficking.

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Guess Who’s Adopting a Child (and Who is Not)?

Submitted by FaithA on Mon, 09/21/2009 - 08:00
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Magenta flowers (c) Lynda BernhardtI seem to keep stumbling upon more and more stories in the news about celebrities adopting (or trying to adopt) children.

First, I saw the story of Elton John seeking to adopt an infant from the Ukraine who is HIV-positive. According to this article, the Ukraine will not allow him to adopt the infant because of his age and marital status. I find it very sad that this infant is likely to grow up in an orphanage because, let’s face it, married couples are hardly lining up around the block to pay tens of thousands of dollars to adopt an HIV-positive child.

I then saw an article about Katherine Heigl and her husband, Josh Kelly, adopting a 10-month old girl from Korea who has special needs.

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