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Intercountry Adoption and AIDS Orphans

Submitted by LisaS on Thu, 09/24/2009 - 17:51
  • Aids Orphans
  • Anti-adoption
  • Intercountry adoption
  • UNICEF

You are either affected or infected with HIV/AIDS by jonrawlinson.

Worldwide there are an estimated 15 million children under the age of 18 that have been orphaned as a result of AIDS with 11.6 million of these children living in sub-Saharan Africa. Their life becomes a nightmare when they have to care for a sick and dying parent and explodes into a full blown tragedy when these children are left to fend for themselves.

As the number of parents dying of AIDS increases, fewer children have anyone to care for them when their parents are dead. Members of the extended families who traditionally would be the safety net for these newly orphaned children are taxed to the limit taking in orphaned relatives. More children are left on their own, the eldest being responsible for the wellbeing of younger siblings.

In addition to the emotional trauma of watching their parents die and becoming orphans, these children rarely have access to a reliable source of food, a home to live in, education and health care. It is not uncommon for them to be stigmatized because their parents have died of AIDS and consequently denied access to services that may be available to other children. Even those children who are left land or assets by their parents rarely get anything as relatives quickly step in and grab whatever is left behind.

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Will Vietnam Re-Open the Door to Intercountry Adoption?

Submitted by LisaS on Tue, 08/25/2009 - 10:42
  • Adoption advocacy
  • Intercountry adoption
  • UNICEF
  • Vietnam

I’m not sure if the news out of Vietnam is favorable for the reopening of intercountry adoption. A section of the draft for changes in the adoption system reads as follows:

“Adoption of children by domestic families should be given priority and that by foreigners treated as a last resort, according to a draft law released at a meeting in Hanoi Friday.”

Domestic families should be given priority in adoption – that is the best solution for children in need of families. But the latter part of that statement is worrisome because if “foreigners” are the last resort, then children can spend their lives in orphanages in their country of birth and never have a forever family.

However the fact that the draft law “lengthens the time available for finding domestic families to adopt orphans and other needy children from 30 to 90 days before they are put up for adoption for foreign families” is somewhat encouraging, because foreign families are being mentioned as an option. However I’m cautiously optimistic and here is why. UNICEF is supporting this draft and UNICEF is anti-intercountry adoption.

When UNICEF got involved in Guatemalan adoption, it closed to intercountry adoption.

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Keeping Track of Dead Kids

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Tue, 04/07/2009 - 01:46
  • Africa
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Writing last night about Hope and Mercy 

and the tragic reality of the lives and deaths of children in the world led me to GlobalIssues.org where this article titled "Today, over 25,000 children died around the world", laid the situation out clearly.

That is equivalent to: * 1 child dying every 3.5 seconds * 17-18 children dying every minute * A 2004 Asian Tsunami occurring almost every 1.5 weeks * An Iraq-scale death toll every 16–38 days * Over 9 million children dying every year * Some 70 million children dying between 2000 and 2007

 

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Global Meltdown: The poor are really screwed

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Thu, 04/02/2009 - 11:31
  • Charitable organizations
  • New York Times
  • News
  • UNICEF
  • United Nations
  • World Bank. Oxfam

global meltdown malnutrition in kidsWhile the middle class is feeling the squeeze of the global econ freefall like an anorexic loofa and top execs are doing the ape walk under the weight of golden handshakes, the poor of the world are biting the big one, but left with nothing but a mouthful of dust.

As Nicholas Kristof illustrates in this NYT OpEd piece times are not just tough, they are killing.

According to World Bank estimates, the global economic crisis will cause an additional 22 children to die per hour, throughout all of 2009. And that’s the best-case scenario. The World Bank says it’s possible the toll will be twice that: an additional 400,000 child deaths, or an extra child dying every 79 seconds.

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As Usual, UNICEF is Full of Crap

Submitted by LisaS on Sun, 08/31/2008 - 10:47
  • Adoption Statistics
  • adoption statistics on Nepal
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It has been a while since I’ve mentioned UNICEF, an organization which supposedly has the well being of children in mind, but instead spreads ignorance and lies, and works diligently at halting intercountry adoption. Here is their latest load of crap:

The international adoption business in Nepal has created a culture of child abuse including the abduction, trafficking and sale of children.”

You read it – adoption is the culprit.

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Myanmar Update

Submitted by AngelaW on Fri, 05/16/2008 - 04:31
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Mynamar cycloneWe are still seeing a bunch of new visitors who want to know about Myanmar children and Myanmar adoption. They are finding us via google.com. So this update is for the searchers and others who care.

LisaS reported in a recent post that children from Myanmar (formerly Burma) cannot be adopted. The UN is estimating that 100,000 Burmese may have died due to Cyclone Nargis and the aftermath. Or maybe the figure is 127,990 Myanmar dead and growing. And according to Aljazeera:

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New York City Gets Tough On Child Welfare

Submitted by VirginiaC on Thu, 05/15/2008 - 22:06
  • Child Removal
  • Foster care
  • International adoption
  • UNICEF

Statue of Liberty

If you want to start a firestorm, forget the matches. All you really need to get a spark is to say you are going to do something about child welfare.

Want proof? Since Lisa told you a few months back about how UNICEF's child welfare stance favors anything but adoption, her post has been read more than 600 times. UNICEF sees its work as benevolent; its critics, like Elizabeth Bartholet, the founder and director of Harvard Law School's Child Advocacy Program, see the opposite. Here's what she wrote in an article just published in the Georgia State University Law Review:

Opposition to international adoption cannot be justified based on any best interest of the child principle, despite the claims of many children’s rights organizations. Instead it is grounded in a group of commonly shared but deeply flawed ideas about children and the role of the state, and driven by adult agendas that are not truly informed by children’s interests.

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Adopt, Change the World or Both

Submitted by LisaS on Mon, 04/07/2008 - 20:02
  • Adoption Ethics
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  • closing the doors to adoption
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  • no more adoption
  • Orphans
  • save the children'
  • starving children
  • stopping adoptions
  • Talking about adoption
  • Transracial adoption
  • UNICEF

 

143,000,000. That is the number of documented orphans worldwide, so probably a conservative estimate.

Anti-adoption rhetoric, particularly concerning intercountry adoption, claims that the money we spend adopting (often up to $30,000+- for services to adopt one child) would be better spent on the families  that are placing children for adoption, so the children could remain with their birth parents.

Here is the inherent weakness in that theory:

1.    Poverty is not the sole reason children are placed for adoption, even in third world countries. Rape, incest, pregnancy out of wedlock, no desire to raise another child, no access to birth control or safe abortion are some others.

2.    Giving money to needy families without simultaneously making dramatic changes in the social, economical, geographical and political fabric of the area they live in is just a short term fix with no long term effect.

3.    Without education, equal rights, and the ability to control the number of pregnancies they have, women are powerless and will continue to give birth to children they cannot care for. The birth rate in Guatemala, for example, is one of the highest in the world.

4.    Throwing money at a problem does not work. Pockets of the corrupt are often fattened by donations, and even though trillions have gone to third world countries from the U.S. alone – the results are minimal in some of the most destitute of areas.

5.   Should the existing orphans, who have no families at this point, have to suffer their whole lives (if they survive beyond childhood) because someday, maybe in another generation or two, life will improve in their country, or because UNICEF and other "well meaning" organizations have decided that they are better off starving and destitute in their own countries? That is sheer arrogance in my opinion.

 

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Another look at UNICEF

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Thu, 02/07/2008 - 11:22
  • Guatemala
  • International adoption
  • UNICEF
  • United Nations

LoChouses Adoption Under One RoofWith the UN being one of my favorite targets for well-deserved abuse, I welcomed Lisa's recent post revealing UNICEF's agenda in Guatemala and now Haiti, to the detriment of children in those poor countries.


An article in Newsweek addresses the organization, as well, and offers other opinions that also take issue with the oh-so-very-unhelpful official stance Lisa outlined.

By their own reckoning, there are some 143 million orphans
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Proposal for new UK mothers

Submitted by SandraHanksBenoiton on Mon, 02/04/2008 - 10:07
  • Birth Family
  • Birth mothers
  • Netherlands
  • UK
  • UNICEF

LoCHere's an interesting article from the UK on a proposal that would help new moms, and could very possibly make it much easier for some considering options to choose to parefnt.

Based on a system in practice in the Netherlands, it would provide a "maternity nurse" in the home for up to six hours a day for the first week of a baby's life, an obvious boon to first-time mothers who may have serious doubts about their capacity to care for an infant.

The maternity nurse scheme is one of the proposals put forward by the Conservatives' Childhood Report, due to be published on Monday following a year-long review triggered by a Unicef report putting the UK bottom of a table of 21 rich countries for the well-being of children.

The cost, of course,

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