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What is your opinion of homeschooling?

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Submitted by LisaS on Fri, 08/22/2008 - 08:45.
I'm against it. All children should attend public or private schools.
5% (1 vote)
I would support homeschooling if it was monitored more closely to ensure that the children are getting an education.
15% (3 votes)
I support homeschooling, but the parents should have to have some training and certification to teach.
40% (8 votes)
I support homeschooling. Parents have the right to teach their children regardless of their education.
40% (8 votes)
Total votes: 20
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scrapsbynobody's picture

Nonissue

Submitted by scrapsbynobody on Fri, 08/22/2008 - 17:48.

Homeschooling is a proven educational choice. In general homeschooled children are doing extremely well, and the effort to monitor their progress or mandate that parents have "credentials" does not change that one bit. Homeschooled students in low regulation states do as well or better than their counterparts in high regulation states.

And please do not site the sensationalized cases of children who are being abused as a reason to regulate homeschoolers. The vast majority of children who are being abused, starved, beaten, or killed...are attending our public schools.

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Hi Scraps, I haven't come

Submitted by LisaS on Fri, 08/22/2008 - 19:40.

Hi Scraps,

I haven't come across anything on abused children who are homeschooled, so I wouldn't be bringing it up. Have you homeschooled your children?
Lisa S.

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Scraps: I agree that all

Submitted by soblessed on Fri, 08/22/2008 - 20:16.

Scraps:

I agree that all parents should have the opportunity to homeschool. I also believe that those parents who have served time for documented child abuse should be closely monitored if they choose to homeschool and I think that, just like a teacher, their teaching priviledges should be revoked if they abuse again.

Just because something has a small incidence doesn't mean it shouldn't be addressed. Just as it would be unfair to penalize all homeschooling families due to the actions of a few abusers, it would also be unfair to ignore a few abusers because the vast majority of homeschooling parents are doing a wonderful job. This of course, is JMO.

As for abused children in the public schools, yep, they are there and, depending on your definition of abused, they are there in spades. The process by which abused children are identified, reported to DYFS and adequately served by DYFS is completely broken. And it is not all the fault of the public school....there is a lot of backlash re: overzealous removal of children from "unfit" parents in previous years. The rights are balanced heavily in favor of the parent and much less so on the child. Again, JMO.

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Yes, Lisa, we do homeschool.

Submitted by scrapsbynobody on Fri, 08/22/2008 - 20:46.

Yes, Lisa, we do homeschool. Our children have also attended both public and private schools. At present we homeschool everyone of school age.

As to the abuse issue, anyone who has been convicted of child abuse should be monitored should they choose to parent...much less homeschool. But it is insanity, not to mention a gross abuse of our rights as American citizens, to assume that all homeschooling families should be closely monitored because of the actions of a tiny percentage of people. Child abuse and murder are actually most likely to occur during the preschool years, yet we do not follow every new Mom home from the hospital with her infant. We assume that all parents take their babies home with the best of intentions, and even cut an enormous amount of slack when parents do not parent well, in the attempt to preserve families.

In saying that the vast majority of abused children are in public schools, I do not stand in condemnation of our schools. It is their job to educate our children, not parent them. When a teacher suspects a child may be in harm's way, of course they must act...but they are not God. They can in fact, do very little. Every year we pour money and research into programs to help children and families, yet year by year the situation seems to get worse and worse. I find it startlingly similar to my observations of the foster care system, but I digress.

And yes Lisa, somehow lately it seems as though conversations about the "rightness" of homeschooling come around to a few sensationalized cases about abusive parents claiming to homeschool. It's what the media (and a good argument) loves...extremes. Likewise we can go the other way, lifting up the number of homeschool students out there that are winning national spelling bees or similar competitions. It is equally ridiculous to rush in and expect that all homeschool students are geniuses, just because there are a few being heavily covered by the media.

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Not to overgeneralize, but

Submitted by LisaS on Fri, 08/22/2008 - 21:41.

Not to overgeneralize, but ,perhaps parents who homeschool their children are the parents who enjoy spending time with their children and are willling to invest time in educating them. Perhaps that partially accounts for the fact that homeschooled children do well academically.

Lisa S.

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I have certainly found that

Submitted by scrapsbynobody on Sat, 08/23/2008 - 00:04.

I have certainly found that to be true in my own personal experience. I have never met any homeschooling families that did not deeply care for their children and what was best for them. Not to say they don't exist...only that I don't know any. Anyone I have met that seems indifferent to their child, was only too happy to enlist "free" help in raising said child for many hours a day.

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homeschool to keep family whole

Submitted by juliennedreamer on Sat, 11/29/2008 - 01:12.

My sister and I are homeschooling our combined 4 kids, aged 2 through 9. We both went to public school and do not want that replicated for our kids. Not that all kids in public school are "bad" by any means, but in my small town of about 2500 people we have second graders and up having sex, they swear and operate on a very different moral compass than I hope to instill in my son. Parenting a traumatized child, he already has been exposed to ugly things, my husband and I are trying to protect him and fill him up with the beautiful things of this earth. I do not have a college degree but there is nothing I, or someone I know, cannot teach with all the resources available today. We love the fact that our son is 98% of the time with one or both of us. He loves trains (as many 3 year olds do) so my husband took him to the local train station where he got to meet the train conductor. Right now he either wants to drive the fork lift at the local feed store or be a train conductor when he grows up. He is already an active member of our community, while many kids his age are stuck in a preschool classroom.

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